Is one better than the other?
2007-07-12 01:47:10 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Society & Culture ➔ Religion & Spirituality
Why are so many people so uptight about sex?? Whatever a consenting adult does with another consenting adult is a-okay in my book!
2007-07-12 01:55:10 · answer #1 · answered by hypno_toad1 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I think both ways are rewarding. Sex is sex. No matter how you feel about the person you choose to have sex with, you're still going to have sex. Sex is good. Could I say sex one more time lol
2007-07-12 08:57:22 · answer #2 · answered by Renny 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I purposefully had my first time with someone who was just a friend and not in love with, just because I didn't want to confuse sex with love. I had heard that when a woman has her first sexual experience with someone she's in love with, that she'll fall in love with whoever she has sex with thereafter. I know that's kinda silly now. But hey, I was a naive sheltered horny virgin. And it made sense at the time. Oh well, at least it prepared me for what my married life would be like at times. Ever have sex with someone you truly hate?
2007-07-12 08:55:54 · answer #3 · answered by RealRachel 4 · 4⤊ 0⤋
If you want to live a life of reason you need to judge actions by the likely consequences, so you have to consider the implications (emotional, medical, financial, etc.) of the actions being considered.
Most of us have a sex drive. It's the mechanism our genes use to try to get themselves replicated. It's up to us as rational beings to harness that and take actions that are best for us and those around us.
2007-07-12 08:56:34 · answer #4 · answered by frugernity 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Better as in morally better or better as in the sex is better?
If A) I would think the love one would be morally better of the two. Gives more substance to the sex and therefore would have a deeper meaning to both parties involved.
If B) Depends on who your partner is and how good they are in bed, or for that matter how good YOU are in bed. It takes two to tango correctly. lol.
2007-07-12 08:52:23 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
How many times in one's life do you really "make love"? Sex is sex. Enjoy!
(Not condoning unprotected sex, all participants must use protection, no exceptions)
2007-07-12 08:56:24 · answer #6 · answered by Elphaba 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
From a biblical perspective yes. From a secular perspective perhaps. However in both realms there is a frank difference between "love" and "sex" and one without the other is less than the whole equation.
2007-07-12 08:55:03 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 2⤋
I think it matters a great deal. If you "feel like it" with someone who is not your love, you may well be setting yourself up for some pretty bad consequences later. Jealousy is just one factor, and not everyone has a jealous nature. But there is pregnancy, diseases, and expectations.
I once spent some time with a young man I thought rather dull and stupid because he was quite a stallion. Then one day he took me to dinner and started talking as if we were going steady, very nearly engaged, might get married. I had to hurt his feelings pretty badly, and it made me feel like a real [b]itch.
I only did it that once.
2007-07-12 08:52:57 · answer #8 · answered by auntb93 7 · 3⤊ 3⤋
Sarah, Sex and ones sexuality matter with God. Fornication(pre-marital sex) is sinful, Adultery(Sex outside of marriage) is sinful. The Bible says and I quote:
1 Corinthians 7:2
"But because sexual sin is a danger, each man should have his own wife, and each woman should have her own husband".
2007-07-12 08:59:38 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 2⤋
Sex for pleasure without consequence has caused a society of wickedness. In which they try every means and method to have sex without consequence. When GOD is master you do what GOD wants. When sin is master you do what sin demands of you. If you seek after pleasure without consequence you try to get rid of getting pregnant with condoms, and if you do get pregnant you have an abortion. And of course then this wickedness has led to murder.
Get married, make a committment then be open to childbirth and you can have all the intercourse you want with your betrothed.
A marriage is one man and one woman.
-LOVE your nieghbor as yourself.
Amen.
2007-07-12 09:14:36 · answer #10 · answered by jesusfreakstreet 4 · 0⤊ 2⤋