i was told yes by some people but why they really dont need to be in our businesses since they dont sign any of the paper work anyhow..... whats the point if so?
2007-07-11 23:38:19 · 9 answers · asked by pink05ice 1 in Politics & Government ➔ Military
you do not have to ask permission in the AF i know you do in the marines but not the AF....... they cant tell you no
2007-07-11 23:44:36 · update #1
I'd say no you don't have to tell them you are getting married but once you too are married, yes. The one exception might be if you two work together in the same battalion, there are rules about involvement within the battalion and within ranks. Other than that you will take in the marriage certificate and such to DEERS and get your information updated, even if you are both military the paperwork needs to be updated.
2007-07-12 07:23:13 · answer #1 · answered by cynthia2002 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You do need to inform your command simply because you will want time off for your wedding and to get your new spouse signed into the various databases she will need to e in for things like a military ID, health care and the like. If you are planning a military career, you need to get used to the idea that your command will need to know a lot of things about your life outside of work...and that your life outside of work can directly affect your military career. For a military marriage to be successful, you need to understand that immediately and be sure your wife to be understands this as well. By marrying you, she is marrying into the military and that is not something all people do well with.
2007-07-12 08:02:33 · answer #2 · answered by Annie 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
You dont have to get permission in the Marines. Who told you that? I mean your unit would like to know, because you are gonna have to go and take care of alot of stuff with DEERS but I never let anybody know and nor did my husband.
2007-07-20 02:41:50 · answer #3 · answered by USMCgrlandMommy 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
listen..u have to let ur chain of command know...because there is so much paper work you have to fill out and most of it has to have at least ur commanders signature...especially when it comes to BAH and BAS....you have to go to all the briefings, get ur spouse an ID card enroll in a few programs.and some other lil small stuff....plus he could actually give you some advice because its hard being married and be in the military with all the things thats going on........trust me i am a drill sergeant..an my family is sleep when i leave at 3am and they are sleep when i get home at midnight.....thats jus some of the things a spouse has to put up with...anyways good luck to ya
2007-07-13 15:04:34 · answer #4 · answered by iggity 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You dont have to tell them (ie get permission), UNLESS it is a foreigner. You do have to inform your administrative chain of command in order to get BAH with dependence and if you want to move out of the barracks after you get married.
2007-07-20 04:52:48 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You don't have to get permission to get married in any branch of the military.
40 years ago you did, but not anymore.
2007-07-12 07:53:04 · answer #6 · answered by jeeper_peeper321 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
"You CANT get married without approval." My bad, The Air Force always did get the best of everything.
2007-07-12 06:43:35 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
it's a good idea to. they cannot forbid it, but there are other considerations: coordinating Leave, if you are both in the same work center, one of you will have to be transferred out, that sort of thing,
2007-07-12 08:30:05 · answer #8 · answered by Mrsjvb 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
no you do not have to tell him. however if you live in the dorms might wanna tell him so you guys can move out of the dorms quickly.
2007-07-12 06:42:46 · answer #9 · answered by Griff 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋