IS HE To OLD???

Question

when i was in 7th grade i had sex with a 11th grader...is that to old..honest truth..yeah and by the way i know i was young and i was only 12...i dont need to be told over and over again..i KNOW im a slutt

Answer 1

I'm pretty sure slutts don't give a **** about how old the people they're screwing.
Now go be a true slutt and not care.

Answer 2

Having sex doesn't make you a slutt. Everyone does it, you got there earlier than most. Thinking you are a slutt may effect your self image though.

It's kind of odd to consider an 11th grader too old. He's a kid. Were you too young? Probably, but how do you define too young? There has to be some sort of harm for it to be too young. Be sure to get the HPV shot if you've been sexually active from a young age. Cervical cancer is real harm.

Answer 3

I'm not sure how old you are now. But, if you're asking the question than maybe inside you feel like he was too old. Why did you do it? Acceptance, love, curiousity, lust? Sex is a complicated thing and best enjoyed with one who truly loves and respects us. If he was just there and it just happened & you find yourself engaging in this type of thing regularly than just please be careful. If he hurt you because you expected a commitment you didn't get than I'm sorry. :o( But, you need to love yourself if you want any boy to love you. And step one is respecting yourself and always making sure before you do something that you're willing to handle the effect your actions have on you, and that means always being repsonsible and thinking through the decisions you make. Don't call yourself a slut unless it's what you want to be. You have the power to decide who you are now and who you want to be - not a message board or or anyone else for that matter can define who you are unless you let them.

Answer 4

wow well first off i can tell you your not that much of a slut lol i did the samething but i was in 8th grade and he was a senior. i think that at the age we were at we were curious about all the hype. And yea a 11th grader is older but at least he was in school. but next time try to stick with someone more in you age range and youll feel better about the whole situation.and dont forget learn for you mistakes okay.

Answer 5

wow who calls them self a slutt? well yea he was 2 old and if ure haven sex at 12 by the time ure 30 you'll have herpies good luck

Answer 6

Don't say you are a slutty please! Yes he was to old I have to say it yes. Or perhaps a better way to say it was you were to young. I mean he was in high school and you were in middle school. Overall when you all are older I would say no the age difference would not matter but here it is a big factor. I am sorry if that's not what you wanted to hear but I feel it's the truth.

Answer 7

Don't refer to yourself in such a derogetory way! :[
If people are constantly calling you a slut - forget them!
Anyway I think 12 is too young but a 4 year age difference isn't too much. If you cared about him I don't see a problem with the age gap.

Answer 8

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Keekz

Answer 9

Ok since you got over the fact that you're one of those girls, so I'll tell you yeah I think he is too old. Well, it would sound better if you were like in your 20s already, but yeah it sounds weird when you are that young and got funky with that guy.

Answer 10

i thik that you made a mistake because you were maybe in love with this fella. but this isn't consider rape unless he was 18 or older or maybe i'm just wrong. and you aren't a slut, ust because you had one mistake with an older guy doesn't mean you're any of those bad words you feel me? well i thought he was too old for you. & his *** was a perv. to do it with a 12 year old. don't listen to rude remarks people say online like tia mae. just try not to make mistakes again.