2007-07-11 19:31:37 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I mean ** in a realtionship**
2007-07-11 19:32:06 · update #1
when you feel the need to post the question on Yahoo
2007-07-11 19:35:10 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You know you're going to get a lot of "when it's a chore not a pleasure".
I disagree with this sediment. There's something very meaningful and deep when you accomplish something by working hard at it, dare I even suggest romantic. It's situations like these that bring couples closer together through actions, not contemplation.
Leaving someone because the personal pleasure has seemingly ended is a very weak basis to hold the relationship's worth on.
We live in a very me-me-me society. And that is not the meaning of sharing a relationship with someone. To probe them for the pleasures you get out of them and then discard them when they are no longer in use.
I'm sorry, I disagree. I believe love is somewhere in the middle of pleasure and pain. Love meets challenges both big and small.
If people would spend more time simply loving rather than questioning love, maybe the divorce rates wouldn't be as high as they are and maybe people would have far more love for themselves to begin with.
2007-07-12 02:50:39 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
It seems you think the time has come to take a break on a relationship since you are questioning it. I do not have any information other than you are questioning when. I would say, you know when the right time is. Just follow your own intuition.
2007-07-12 02:36:22 · answer #3 · answered by pattimaris1675@sbcglobal.net 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you have to even ask that question, it most likely means you need one. You're probably feeling very confused about what to do, i'd suggest taking a break for 2 weeks-a month, and then you'll be able to view your relationship from a more objective point of view and make a decision then.
2007-07-12 02:37:38 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
When the realtionship becomes more of a chore than a pleasure.
2007-07-12 02:33:44 · answer #5 · answered by PEGGY S 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
When you guys have to many problems and are arguing constantly. You guys would still have that love for eachother but no so much that first spark that you guys had in the beginning... a break is a time to get away from eachother and think about "do i want to stay with her/him" "whats best for him and whats best for me" "could we work through this." Good luck...
2007-07-12 02:36:01 · answer #6 · answered by Nikki <3 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
when there is no fire left, u feel like friends not lovers,
and/our u are fighting just to keep it together. when its a chore. whan it just doesn't work.
u need to recoperate and make sure that u still love that person. to see if u need change, to see if ur values and goals in life are still the same and the same as ur partner's.
2007-07-12 02:33:31 · answer #7 · answered by Dot -Xoxo 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Hi Cali, Your heart will tell you something is wrong. Always go by your heart. A Friend.
poppy1
2007-07-12 02:35:58 · answer #8 · answered by poppy1 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
when we begin to argue and we just cant seem to see eye to eye. when it's just frustrating to be around each other - then it's break time. or possibly break up time.
2007-07-12 02:34:09 · answer #9 · answered by SportyT 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
when u need ask when u need to take a break on a relatiomship!!!!!!!
2007-07-12 02:35:01 · answer #10 · answered by H.B.K. 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋