date someone who has more money than you or be the one who has more money? why?
2007-07-11 19:26:36 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I'd rather be the one with roughly the same amount of money. For example I'm a doctor and my husbands a doctor and our salary is around the same amount every year. I wouldn't want to be making more then him! and i certainly wouldn't want to be all poor and him making the billions....I'm not materialistic but I sure would love to recieive gifts, and of course give some back :)
2007-07-11 19:33:11 · answer #1 · answered by Nikki <3 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wow, that's a tough question. I'd like to be the one with more money, because I hate feeling needy or inferior. At the same time, though, I don't want someone to depend on me for money. I think equal is best.
2007-07-11 19:29:20 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
whew! well, for me, i think i'd rather be comfortable having more money when dating someone because it makes me feel better. It feels so right and relax and the fact that you will not feel some shyness, self-pity or getting embarrassed when you have you're own money. It keeps you on the go!
2007-07-11 19:35:10 · answer #3 · answered by xexami 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would prefer that I'm the one who has more money than my date..so that I won't be accused as gold digger or social climber. I would date this person because I like him, not because he has more money than I do.
2007-07-11 19:50:49 · answer #4 · answered by ayabrea_09 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Personally speaking, it doesn't matter. As long as she loves me and values me as a person, it doesn't matter. I know a lot of guys have a complex if their woman is making more than they are. Not me. In some ways, if I am dating a woman who makes more than I do, then I know she want to be with me for who I am and not what I have.
2007-07-11 19:31:00 · answer #5 · answered by davester1970 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Lucifer, Dear, I am a teacher...How would it be possible for me to support you financially? LOL!!! I don't make any money! Maybe you can just hold on a little bit til I make it as your manager! Then I'll make enough to support a few men!
2007-07-12 02:50:53 · answer #6 · answered by Missy (aka: La Tigres) 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Date someone with alot of money so they could bye me stuff!LOL
2007-07-11 19:33:17 · answer #7 · answered by Kasey 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i dont think that is such a big deal, besides, you cant decide who you are going to fall in love with, maybe the person that is meant for you donest have any money (which would be very sad), or maybe you fall in love with the prince of england =P lol, love is still beautiful♥
2007-07-11 19:30:46 · answer #8 · answered by nadie entendia mi nick asi que lo cambie 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
i'd rather be the person with more money just because i wouldn't want to feel compelled to ask them to pay or dependent on the other person just to enjoy myself...its just comforting knowing that you can provide for yourself overall...
2007-07-11 19:31:20 · answer #9 · answered by rachel k 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
be the one that has more money
2007-07-11 19:29:19 · answer #10 · answered by Poe 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋