me and my boyfriend have been dating for a year and seven months...and his step mom doesnt think im the greatest..i mean shes kicked me out of my boyfriends house and talks **** about me behind my back...should i care?
2007-07-11 19:21:54 · 7 answers · asked by lorena2007 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
suffocate her with a pillow when she is sleeping
2007-07-11 19:25:32 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
I think the more important question is why do you care? Because if you didn't you would'nt bother wasting points on this question to begin with. I'm not sure if the two of you are forever but, you obviosly are for now - so, talk to her. Tell her you really care about her step son and respect the way he was raised (Whether you do or don't becasue he obviously turned out okay if you care about him-not sure if she was around while he was growing up) And that you'd really like to have a good relationship with her because it's what's best for the family. Mother's don't want to lose there sons and want what's best for them, even stepmothers. Maybe she has control issues or maybe if the two of you have and up and down relationship she feels the two of you arent right for eachother. Regardless the person most affected in all of this is your boyfriend. So, ask him how he feels and don't make him ever decide between who's right and wrong when it comes to the two of you. It's a lose lose for him and puts him in a corner.
And on a side note: Grow up. Talk with respect - and be the mature one in the situation. If she talks ";>+ about you behind your back let it go instead of giving her the satisfaction of ever proving her right :o)
2007-07-11 19:36:21 · answer #2 · answered by Coach A 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well for one thing I would feel hurt that she had to be like that toward me. I would one day walk up to the door and ask her if the two of you could talk? ( if it means something to you)? Confront her and ask her why she feels the way she does about you......tell her you want to know what your doing wrong so that you can change that. Putting her on the spot like that makes her own up to answer for her behavior toward you and then you will know! Should you care.......well that is up to you and if it means something to your boyfriend. If the discussion with the stepmom doesn't go well then at least you tried and then I wouldn't worry about it. If you plan on being around in the years to come the stepmom will only be the one that loses. My daughter inlaw was 15yr's old when she started dating my son and today she is now 30yr's old with two children and married to him! I am so glad that I accepted her back then because she is the best thing that ever happened to my life and family...she is a great person and I am sure you are to sweetie. Good luck and best wishes and be happy.
2007-07-11 19:43:06 · answer #3 · answered by Lindsey 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No.. you shouldn't care.. I'm curious as to how she can kick you out of your man's house... Who is your man? and Why doesn't he have your back?
2007-07-11 19:25:20 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well if your boyfriend is close to her then you should try to improve your relationship with her, but if he isnt close with her you dont need to be close with her either.
Hope that helps
2007-07-11 19:33:10 · answer #5 · answered by Captain Skynyrd 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yep you should, especially if you plan on getting married, having kids, etc.
2007-07-11 19:25:20 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you marry him, you are stuck with her in your life. You might as well get along with her.
2007-07-11 19:24:56 · answer #7 · answered by janicajayne 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋