2007-07-11 17:36:11 · 14 answers · asked by ? 3 in Society & Culture ➔ Religion & Spirituality
TEK ,good answer.
2007-07-11 17:45:43 · update #1
I am sorry to see that some thought this would be a good place to show how judgmental people can be. I have suffered many times in my life, but I know that most of the trials were just training camp for surviving something a little further down the road. I have met people that had every advantage handed over by rich and indulgent parents, and while some came out of it, most were ungrateful and shallow. You can't change much in this world but you. If you are in a deadend job, take a night class and allow yourself to dream a little bigger. If your family is dysfunctional, love them, but determine to learn from their mistakes, not relive them. Seek out good people that you admire and tell them why you admire them. Many mature people are willing to mentor someone with a true desire to better themselves. I wish you the best, and pay no attention to the naysayers. They probably are at that deadend job you are about to dump for bigger and better!
2007-07-11 17:59:29 · answer #1 · answered by One Wing Eagle Woman 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I believe the culture they were raised in and their attitude affect this to a great extent the rest is just plain bad luck. My personal friend Murphy created a law on the latter explanation. Personally speaking, Heavenly Father doesn't give us anything we can't handle, Life is going to happen, it is how you proceed with life when negative things happen that determines your path in life. One can get bogged down or move past it. I have learned this the hard way at times, but I have come to realize that even at the worst times in my life if it weren't for that event or set of events having occurred several other positive and life changing events would have never happened. It is all about attitude, the important thing is to help as many people as you can, success comes through helping others.
2007-07-12 00:49:35 · answer #2 · answered by Brad 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Some may be dealt a lower card but not the hand is bad it may be easier path for some in the financial area or dating or whatever but is you outlook of life some villagers are happier than the millionaire some lonely person may like it that way but it all comes down to your way of thinking of the hole picture of life
2007-07-12 00:47:49 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
frankly, SOME people are dealt a bad hand in life. my aunt has M.S. and there's no way she could have avoided it. she's been taking all the new meds and yet the disease continues to take over her body. despite this disease, she has managed to stay positive. it's sad that she cannot live her life to the fullest. she's been stuck in a wheelchair for over 12 years. she's in advances stages and most likely never see her only daughter to get married and have children. it's all very sad. there's no way she would have wished for this type of life.
2007-07-12 00:44:54 · answer #4 · answered by Slomotion Like Snail 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
We are not all created equally. All of us have different skills, upbringing, educational opportunities and genetic differences. Some are born into financially comfortable families and some are born into poverty. There are people who manage to make the most with what they are given, while others manage to throw away their chances. So yes, some are dealt a bad hand in life.
2007-07-12 00:41:30 · answer #5 · answered by Kathryn™ 6 · 2⤊ 1⤋
People all over the world "struggle" for different reason's,
some of them are bought on by drug's and being addicted to them,and some are just plain stupid with their money as in gambling,again they bring it on thenselves,and yet again some go into being theives,bank robber's,rapists & terrorist's,now all these people had one chance in life to do the right thing,but they chose the other,much the same as me,i was baptised in a catholic church,but by the time i was 13 i went over to worship the devil and have done since.
I have never changed my view's on the Christian way of life,
other than it's not for me and never will be.
2007-07-12 00:52:06 · answer #6 · answered by the-Devil-is-King 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Some are. The fact is, you have to play the hand you have or fold. I have won, at times, holding not even a pair of ducks. It all depends on how well you can play the game.
2007-07-12 00:43:42 · answer #7 · answered by Grendel's Father 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I have observed that every human is bound in sin and has suffering. Whether we see it or not, is not important.
I would not trade the humble blessings I have received by "struggling" and learning faith for any amount of monetary wealth. I have riches that Donald Trump can never have.
2007-07-12 00:42:58 · answer #8 · answered by TEK 4 · 4⤊ 0⤋
More tests.TEK I agee with what you say. Did you notice, I am sure you did. That the struggles got harder as you did the will of God. The blessings are beyond words.
2007-07-12 00:48:27 · answer #9 · answered by State Champs Moody 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
if you are one of those who struggles in life dont ask for a easier life instead ask to be a stronger person
NO such thing as an easy life buddy
2007-07-12 00:40:00 · answer #10 · answered by JNW 2 · 2⤊ 1⤋