my guy and I have been together almost 2 months...last night, he hit me with I love you. is it too soon?
2007-07-11 14:19:58 · 13 answers · asked by lonely_gal72577 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Im a cancer RN and I take care of a lot of very sick people. They tell me they love me, and I tell them I love them back.
Love is a natural emotion and it occurs thru everything we do or share with another person. If you love him, then tell him so.
Never miss the opportunity to share such a wonderful feeling.
Its not that big of a deal. Its wonderful
2007-07-11 14:28:29 · answer #1 · answered by happydawg 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you're questioning his comments, I would say it's too soon. Two months is a relatively short amount of time to discover you're in love with anybody.
When a relationship is new, everything is wonderful and exciting, and emotions run high. This can result in saying something emotional, or that we don't understand the full meaning of.
Did he say this near an intimate encounter? If so, there's your answer. Guys think those three magic words will get them farther with girls, and sometimes they're right, especially if the girl is uncertain of herself.
Love is developed over time, and tempered through both good times and bad. I'd say two months is when you really like someone, and maybe love can come with time.
2007-07-11 21:26:57 · answer #2 · answered by dynonugget 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, if your in love with him, no time is too soon. I said I love you to my boyfriend first (1 month into my relationship) well i told him "I think I love you" and he said in return "I KNOW i love you" lol. And we have been together for almost a year now. Did you just kinda leave him hanging or did you say I love you too? If you think it is too soon, then definateley, in the end, noone can tell you if your in love, you just kinda KNOW. hope this helps peace and love.
2007-07-11 21:24:50 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Definitely, yes. Think of why he said it. Was it to manipulate you into something ie sex etc. If he has been a nice stable boyfriend without game maybe he's sincere. Make sure he's sincere and honest about everything before you say it. Don't say it unless you want to. I rather savor the relationship and see where it goes before you share heavy feelings because it can make or break a relationship if said immaturely.
2007-07-11 21:30:19 · answer #4 · answered by Freedom Rules!! 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if u guys r adults and have already discovered each others likes, dislikes, and views of the world. etc.,. them its OK. as long as u feel the same 4 him or know that u want 2 feel the same way
2007-07-11 21:24:09 · answer #5 · answered by pamelat 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Say it when you don't have to think about the answer more than 5 seconds
2007-07-11 21:25:53 · answer #6 · answered by Sam 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It does sound pretty quick! I always thought that "I love you" came after the 8th month or so...
2007-07-11 21:25:34 · answer #7 · answered by Leona B. 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It depends on how you feel....Did you automatically say it back to him and you don't feel this way?
2007-07-11 21:22:39 · answer #8 · answered by i_b_winkn_at_u 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
say it when you think you really mean i love you to him
2007-07-11 21:24:32 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
no0 its not to soon you should say it when you feel compterable and you think its the right time for you!!!!!!!!!!!!!! hope that helps
2007-07-11 21:26:44 · answer #10 · answered by rayann p 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋