2007-07-11 13:44:11 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Health ➔ Mental Health
This is a very complex question and there are so many different reasons why this can be. For some, they are mentally sick. For some, they may have been raised in a similar situation and subjected to abuse themselves and therefore do not know how to treat someone with respect. Some will believe their own lies to justify how they are treating the victim. Some are playing mind games with the victim and/or others to prevent from getting "in trouble." There are so many different reasons of why abusers deny their behavior. It's frustrating and so sad.
2007-07-11 14:04:36 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
this is one that many would like to know the answer to :)
but the truth is no one has the answer. all the abuser see is him/her self as one with power and that is all that they see.
they deny it for the reason that they know that there action are wrong and that they know will get them into trouble and they are too much of a cowed to face up to there action.
at this time i wonder where your at with this? are you going though court with your abuser? or just trying to get closer to issue's that happened as a child? if you are not going to court then just let them know what they did and give it back to them so that you can heal, do what you need to do with it. they don't confess so don't be disappointed by that just know that it is part of the beast that they do not have the guts to take responsibility for there action.
2007-07-16 18:14:27 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
There is an insult unto death. Friends and family can be the source of all depression. The winner-players play a mean game and the loser can die. They believe god is supporting their cause and the restricted circle is righteous. The outsiders must stay safe and stay away from the winners to be happy.
2007-07-11 21:13:26 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Because they need professional help and until they get it they will continue to be in denial. I also think that it is likely that the abuser has experienced some type of abuse himself and what he is doing is learned behavior.
2007-07-18 15:43:17 · answer #4 · answered by smiley 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Quite abusers grew up in an atmosphere where one parent habitually abused the other, and the child grows up to repeat this pattern in their own lives.
2007-07-18 10:19:50 · answer #5 · answered by ? 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
"Windfall" has a great answer!!
I wish I could give you the answer you are seeking, but what can we say about why people do what they do?
We don't know what is going through their sick minds for us to understand.
Whatever has happen I pray that you seek the help to heal from this ordeal.
2007-07-11 21:42:09 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
they get some sort of high from this kind of behavior and it dosn't occur to them about how the victim feels or copes.
2007-07-13 20:03:01 · answer #7 · answered by beachy 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
They don't have a developed conscience. Society often does not reward people for thinking well of others it seems.
2007-07-19 20:42:52 · answer #8 · answered by esha26 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋