If you knew he was the one you wanted to spend the rest of you life with would you...?

Question

Would you wait for him to come back from the army without doing anything with anyone for three years? Before my boyfriend left to the army we promised eachother that we we would wait for eachother for three years.

The plan was to wait for eachother and stay true to eachother until he came back. Then when he came back we were going to try and see if we could work things out, and if we could, then great. But if we couldn't then we wouldn't...

My question is, if you knew he was the love of your life would it be worth waiting for him? Knowing you will only be able to see him a month out of the year for three years?

Answer 1

ABSOLUTELY!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

If you're feeling a little lonely - and you can't talk/email him - then spend some time with your friends. And when things get "lonely" in the bedroom, there is a lot you can do with a little fantasy - and some helpful "accesories" ;);););)

Love triumphs over Sex ANYDAY - especially when it's True Love :):)

Answer 2

That's up to you. Your feelings should probably lead you in the right direction.

If I knew someone was the love of my life, it would DEFINITELY be worth waiting for him, even if I would only be able to see him for one month out of the year for 3 years.

Answer 3

well yes if you really love him than you will wait for him buton the other hand i am not saying anything to hurt you but like you sayed what if it doesnt work then what are you going to do since you will be here for 3 years waiting for him and just say he comes back and says well i love you but i met someone else then what you know what i mean?

Answer 4

Only if you think he is the "love of your life", but trust me, he will cheat. Most military men do. And those that say no, you are in denial.

Answer 5

i would wait forever if i knew he was the right guy.just wait for him and tell him how you feel.