My tennis partner has started making comments about my physical appearance. Last week he said the muscles in my arms were looking nice and toned. I shrugged this off and told myself that it was nothing to worry about. Today he told me that by buns were looking nice and tight. I'm very concerned that he may be having gay thoughts about me.
I do not want a gay partner.
2007-07-11 10:08:30 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Society & Culture ➔ Religion & Spirituality
I forgot to mention he has a moustache
2007-07-11 10:26:17 · update #1
He could be gay, but he could also just be commenting. I've told other girls they have great legs or boobs before and I'm certainly not a lesbian.
Even if he is gay, you don't have to find another partner. If he keeps making these comments, then just tell him you're not interested.
2007-07-11 10:11:53 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Do you understand that there is a difference between a tennis partner and a life partner?
That said, I'd take what the guy was saying as harassment and tell him I was uncomfortable, in your spot. A simple "Dude, what the hell?" should do it.
2007-07-11 17:11:51 · answer #2 · answered by GreenEyedLilo 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
If you don't want a gay partener then just tell him your not interested. I don't think you have anything to worry about though, he just sounds like he notices your apperance as a friend would.
2007-07-11 17:12:42 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Lol. Males tend to congratulate each other on physical appearance. Don't be alarmed unless he touches you weirdly, and then ya know he's gay.
2007-07-11 17:11:24 · answer #4 · answered by cookieloo2 1 · 3⤊ 0⤋
The real question here is, what will it take him to compliment you on before you jump in the sack with him.
2007-07-11 17:14:27 · answer #5 · answered by Seán_18 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
just take it as a compliment and get over it
edit: he has a mustache? What does that have to do with anything?
2007-07-11 17:13:39 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
hahahahahaha
but seriously....how long has he been your partner? could be that hes just noticing these differences and nothing more.....
2007-07-11 17:12:10 · answer #7 · answered by sierraskyesmom 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
get over it and make out with him..lmao jk
yeah most likely hes gay. or bi and likes staring at ur a.ss
2007-07-11 17:11:56 · answer #8 · answered by xXxcaptainxplanetxXx 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
hahaha the second comment was hilarious
2007-07-11 17:11:16 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
what's wrong with a compliment...as long as he is not coming on too strong.
2007-07-11 17:19:12 · answer #10 · answered by G.C. 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋