I dont know ...I dont want to sex them or anything but sometimes I cant help looking at younger girls some of them are so cute and innocent - my heart just melts and i just want to hug them. Am i messed up? Im 27 years old.
2007-07-11 09:22:28 · 24 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I don't think you're a perv. but i don't think hugging them is the smartest thing for you to consider. Younger girls are a different kind of "pretty" than older women. When you're young you try harder to be attractive... at least i did anyways. And many teens today look older than they really are. But yeah... Keep the hugging to a minimal or you might end up getting yourself into trouble.
2007-07-11 09:32:59 · answer #1 · answered by Lil' Miss Sweet Heart 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I think a hug is pretty innocent...as long as you aren't acting on these thoughts or letting them take over your mind you are probably ok. i am also 27 and i think my little sister's 16 year old friend is cute (im a girl, he's a guy). but it stops at that. i don't seriously consider being that sick and i don't spend time actually thinking about it. he's just a cute kid that i would be interested in if he weren't a kid.
2007-07-11 16:28:59 · answer #2 · answered by nathan's girl 1 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I dont think thats bad at all, Im 16 (well im 2 months short of 16) and I have a 27 year old boyfriend who I love with all of my heart. As long as you like them for them (even if they are cute) and your not just trying to get into their pants I dont see a problem with it.
2007-07-11 16:29:40 · answer #3 · answered by Brittney B 1 · 1⤊ 1⤋
as long as you dont actually DO anything, you should be ok. i would get some more help from a psychiatrist. searching and asking people online for advice isnt all that helpful. its kind of like going into a chatroom and asking for a doctor about a problem. you need to think about what people are willing to say or do to get you to listen to them.
2007-07-11 16:27:46 · answer #4 · answered by ~*~Nobody Important~*~ 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
its legal in the UK as long as your not in a position of responsibilty over them like a teacher i personal wont sleep with a female under 18 unless i know for a fact that they are older than 16
2007-07-12 09:45:20 · answer #5 · answered by nurgle69 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, you're just a guy. As long as you manage to keep it in your pants you'll be fine. Paedos can't seem to do that. Feeling an attraction is one thing, acting it out is another.
2007-07-11 17:05:46 · answer #6 · answered by anna 7 · 2⤊ 1⤋
Well.... If u think that they are cute enough 2 hug it's not bad many men think younger girls are adorable in that way... I think
lol! Don't Worry!
2007-07-11 16:37:09 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 0⤋
your 27 and you think 16 year olds look sexy and whats the problem with that,its legal
some 16 year olds look older more sexier
2007-07-12 04:40:26 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
wanting to hug them is a little messed-up. But just thinking that some of them are attractive WITHOUT ANY INTENTION OF GETTING THEM, is really not so unusual. Don't worry about it.
2007-07-11 16:26:23 · answer #9 · answered by Anita 3 · 3⤊ 1⤋
Well of course ur not messed up your probably just curious about some things with smaller girls its kool kool. I think thats cute.
2007-07-11 16:27:38 · answer #10 · answered by Dangerous Angel 2 · 3⤊ 1⤋