how can you decipher between?

Question

knowing if you like the guy or you just dont want to be alone?

Answer 1

Easy it comes down to the fact that you even asked that! Yep that simple. If you can ask weather you love him or just trying to aviod something then you've got a serious problem on your hands. But an even deeper indication is the more about how you love this guy, now if, or why, what for, but HOW. Think of it this way if the only thing you love is his.. situation, or his mannerism, or the way he does something simple then chances are that love is pretty shallow and theres something else you love more, like (you put it good) loving the fear of being alone, or feeling for it, its interchangeable. Now if you can't explain it so simply, if its multiple things, if its his smell, the way he laughs, his stories, his jokes, his smile, the way he leaves the toliet set up not because he forgot but to give you a hard time, etc, etc, well you've got a good relationship because their is so much you feel for in this man and you need to stop feeling insecure. But chances are your there for that reason baby girl, because true love is actually extremely, sadly, unfornuntly, o god sometimes I wish it wasn't so, hard to deny..... good luck!