Ok so I am dating three girls at the same time but none of them know. They don't know because they all go to different schools. One of them goes to school by my house and the other two live by my cousin's house, which I go to almost every weekend. But recently they all said that they feel I have not been spending enough time with them and is thinking about breaking up. But the problem is I really like all three of them and don't want to break up with any so what should I do? P.S. I am 15 years old.
2007-07-11 07:20:55 · 30 answers · asked by Young J 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
ohh come on, some of the answers you guys are giving me are very mean and cruel. Remember I am only human and will make mistakes.
2007-07-11 07:47:34 · update #1
You're only 15 so you got some lessons to learn. You can't treat women like this. They'll be an important part of your whole life, and if you continue like this you're going to have a whole lot of trouble waiting for you. Choose one, break up with the others. Be honest.
2007-07-11 07:24:24 · answer #1 · answered by Katrina W 2 · 2⤊ 1⤋
Hi, let me ask the spiritual guide see what you should do.
The spiritual guide said:
There is a high possiblity that this might happen in the next 5 years of your life: you will have 3 major heart breaks. Each time you love the girl very much. But each time they are all dump you and also seeing other boys behind your back the whole time.
The only way to reverse this outcome is to do something different with your situation today.
You need to think which girl you like the most and just go out with one girl. To completely prevent this to happen, you need to only see one girl at a time in the next 5 years.
2007-07-11 14:37:35 · answer #2 · answered by littleflower 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your definitely young and not in-love with these girls. You might experience a good-feeling being around them, for If you were truly in-love you would have settle with one girl. You can't spend time with each one of them and give them the attention you think they need. You must settle it now and break up with all three girls and/or choose one of them as a steady date.
2007-07-11 14:30:26 · answer #3 · answered by Rose 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are a player and need to learn to be honest. Don't tell someone that you are only dating them if it isn't the truth. I hope all three of them dump you and that you make better choices next time around. Good luck and God Bless.
P.S You are also much too young to be this manipulative.
2007-07-11 14:25:04 · answer #4 · answered by tersey562 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
The problem is you. There is nothing wrong, legally, morally, or ethically with "dating" three girls. However, can you handle it with your ethic's? If you have to ask the question, then the answer is no. I dated three girls simultaneously in college. They each knew about the other and had no problems because we were "just" dating. I eventually asked one to marry me and told the others good bye. My fiance dumpted me four weeks later for an old boy friend, but my two other friends had moved on. I morned for six months and then moved on.
2007-07-11 14:23:35 · answer #5 · answered by ? 7 · 2⤊ 1⤋
listen dude, you must have some kind of feelings cause u r on this depressing website but i have been there and done that so what you need to do before you get yourself in a mess is choose the one that you can trust to never do you wrong and that you can love b/c cheating is a dead end road and your gonna get caught sooner or later good luck with their parents if their any thing like mine and my girlfriend's hope every thing works out for you.
2007-07-11 14:32:48 · answer #6 · answered by dean r 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Are you kidding me, that is awesome. You are going out with three girls at the same time? If I were you I would at least get laid by each one of them before you dump them all. Also you are very smart because it would take them a while to find out because they go to different schools. P.S. can you hook me up with one of them?
2007-07-11 15:28:16 · answer #7 · answered by hot_guy15 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Only 3? lol, Make the most of it while ur gettin away with it, just have some answers prepared cos when u get found out u got some explainin to do !!
2007-07-11 14:45:28 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
first off, you need to tell all 3 that you were seeing other people at the same time ... any good relationship (friend or romantic) has to be built on honesty ... then tell them that you still like them, but you don't want to be exclusive to any of them
if they agree, good for you ... if not, then you need to quit being selfish and thinking of only yourself and find some girls that agree with your way of thinking
2007-07-11 14:25:12 · answer #9 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no girl wants the guy she's dating to be dating 2 other girls. if they found out they might do the breaking up for you.
2007-07-11 14:26:03 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋