i like my bff's crush. it's crazy, but she's not allowed to have a myspace, so she asked me to manage it for her. and i have been talking on her name to a guy she likes, because she asked me to. and i have begun to like him. its hard because ive been talking to him as her, and if he likes her, he doesn't know that it is really me. i'll see him at a party.... and i for some reason won't to look really cute. it sounds so gross, i don't even like him, it's just that i do.
2007-07-11 07:08:24 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Oh, and thanks for being honest. I like when someone tells me the truth, even if it is mean.
2007-07-11 13:33:57 · update #1
Wow, Cyrano, looks like you've gotten yourself into a classic love triangle. You're going to have to level with your bff. Does she know you're talking to him as her? Let her know what you're saying to him. See what she says.
Good luck--
2007-07-11 07:12:13 · answer #1 · answered by KD 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You need to tell him the truth or tell her that she is going to have to start talking with him in that forum, and walk away from this situation ASAP. You may be giving him more expectations on who your friend is - which will lead to a major letdown - or projecting more of yourself into the conversation, while leaving her behind. Either way, you are traveling a path that will hurt several people sooner than later.
2007-07-11 15:01:20 · answer #2 · answered by Zombie Birdhouse 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well maybe you should just introduce yourself to him and talk for a while. Then leave him alone and let your best friend hang out with him. It might turn out that you do like the guy or you might not. My Space isn't all it's cracked up to be.
2007-07-11 14:13:37 · answer #3 · answered by carmelcat324 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Who's more important and What's more important.
Your friend or him / your friendship or him?
Keep doing what you're doing and you won't have a friendship OR a bestfriend anymore.
What you're doing is a violation of a code of friendship and it cancels friendships.
2007-07-11 14:22:47 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
back off you say you don't like him then you say you do. find another guy to chat on myspace good luck they are a dime a dozen
2007-07-11 14:12:08 · answer #5 · answered by Makosi L 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Somebody needs to tell him. Hes getting played. He will find out sooner or later and neither of you will have him.
2007-07-11 14:12:30 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
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2007-07-11 14:11:58 · answer #7 · answered by bigpunkdrummer 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋