My sister introduced me to this guy from her work. He's a fairly sexy goodlooking guy. He asked me out and I said yes. So we set up a date for tomorrow night. The problem is that I don't want to go out with him. I just don't want to. I feel a bit depressed, and don't feel like meeting new people, specially those that can add complications to my life. Anyway, what can I do at this point? Do I call and cancel? Or should I just flake on him. What would you do?
2007-07-11 07:02:58 · 11 answers · asked by kujiiiro 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I am not brave at all. I also am very bad at expressing my emotions, feelings, and what I want. Gosh, I'm such a sheep. How do I tell him I'm not interested afterthe first date?
2007-07-11 07:14:34 · update #1
Follow your instincts/feelings. Emotions can change. So, you may not want to always listen to the emotions.
2007-07-11 07:06:16 · answer #1 · answered by ? 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you don't go your going to put your sister in a weird position at work, especially if you just flake on him. I think that the best thing to do when you're in a bit of a funk is to go out there and meet people, even though it seems like the opposite of what you want to do. Go out and have fun, and don't go there thinking that you're going to have a terrible time. After all, the guy's goodlooking, your sister wouldn't have introduced you if he was a total loser, and he's obviously into you. You should enjoy a night of being treated like a princess.
2007-07-11 07:08:43 · answer #2 · answered by Ahoimatey 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Call and cancel and tell him the truth ('not ready to meet somebody new right now', and 'sorry for saying yes in the first place when I was not really ready'). If he is a reasonable guy he will be disappointed, but respect it. If he does not respect it, you have weeded out a weirdo.
If you flake it will probably close that door forever, and that seem not necessary. Flaking might also making unnecessary complicated for your sister at work.
2007-07-11 07:09:27 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you are depressed you probably should just go. He didn't say he wanted to marry you. Will you feel better getting more and more depressed in your home?
At the least give the guy the respect of calling and telling him you changed your mind. Jeez.
Flake on him, that is just lame.
2007-07-11 07:08:12 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you should go out with him, you never know you might have a good time. Just don't have dinner because that might take a long time. Meet him for a drink or a coffee.
2007-07-11 07:07:01 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wrap yourself up in deep despair and stay home crying your guts out.
Or go out with the nice guy and give it a shot?!
2007-07-11 07:07:41 · answer #6 · answered by poison_angel32 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just go. It's one date. Maybe he'll help you feel better. If it doesn't work out then you can tell him you're not interested.
2007-07-11 07:07:35 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
id call him and explain that u don't really feel like meeting new ppl. and explain to him why. before u go out. or after
2007-07-11 07:07:58 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just go on one date, there's no harm. Then, maybe you can decide if its worth it to have him in ur life.
2007-07-11 07:07:16 · answer #9 · answered by Its me again 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just stick it out and go. Dont make your sis look bad.
2007-07-11 07:07:53 · answer #10 · answered by Ultimate Guitar Hero! 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋