People tend to get physical when they are dating, 1st base to homerun, things like that. Dating should be just as great by being together with the person you like and connect with his/her feeling and mind. But without physical pleasure, how to make the dating experience exciting?
2007-07-11 06:13:28 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You can find things you both like to do, walk in the park, movie, dinner...just talk and hold hands. Sure its the friendship phase, but if you build a good friendship first, then your relationship has a better chance of survival and when the physical phase comes along, and it will be that much more enjoyable!
2007-07-19 05:58:22 · answer #1 · answered by Quad Momma LUV the dunes! 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Physical pleasure is part of a relationship, it grows on you after a while. It seems like you just want a friend to date without the physical side but with the title of dating.
2007-07-11 06:21:33 · answer #2 · answered by The Coug 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
having a conversation and getting to know someone can be just as satisfying as having an intimate, sexual relationship. If you are mature enough to handle that type of relationship. Its good when you connect with someone on a mental, emotional and physical level but the physical pleasure is like the icing on the cake
2007-07-19 04:11:36 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
it could happen if the mood is right it will happen but in other words physical pleasure has to come from both mates , there are many things to do like a movie or a romantic dinner or a nice evening walk what ever that binds you together, (if the chemistry is right physical pleasure will happpen.
2007-07-19 05:17:16 · answer #4 · answered by Maricela M 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
cater to her wishes. what she wants to do, where she wants to go. spend a few bucks on her. That is a nice start. Having good conversation is always a winner because women want to know what men are thinking and feeling. You enjoy the friendship part of dating. If it goes past 6 months without any sexy feelings, then it likely will never get into a dating relationship.
2007-07-18 15:33:19 · answer #5 · answered by nightlightview 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I agree with you there is just to much dating that is physical. One should try to know the person and learn what they like to do for fun in life and compare them with them you enjoy and do them. Also it is good to do things that require public activities like bike riding, rollablading, going to the zoo or just going on a local cruise for site seeing. I'm sure you get my point I hope. Try some thing new. some times you will have to hold there hand at times. try going to an out doors/indoors ice-cream, tea, or beverage shop that you like and order two one for you and the other and look in their eyes as you eat and talk to that petson. I mainly suggest that you order one large and get two spoons or straws it seems more romantic.
2007-07-19 06:11:13 · answer #6 · answered by cozmos 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well before the weather changes!?! that's if you`re in a location that you'd experience all the seasons!?!.. Go to a local rec~center !! And ask some of the directors I guess if they have weekly events!?! that's if they open all year`round!?!. Or sit down & plan things around local events!! mostly public things !! that MIGHT take the urge away atleast some !?!or for awhile!?! or why not seriously express your thoughts!?!
2007-07-19 04:05:55 · answer #7 · answered by ? 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i guess u should have at least something or a lot in common with this person so u would go out and do something u both would really enjoy that isn't physical pleasure.
2007-07-19 06:13:08 · answer #8 · answered by Deerich 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
that's love...
nobody can tell you what to do to have that... you just gotta find somebody compatible enough to have that with who is on your same level...
the guy i'm with went 6 months before we did anything past kissing. and it's not like it never crossed our minds but we were always going somewhere together and we enjoyed just the simple fact of being together... our relationship was thrilling in itself and when we did start to do other things that was just an accent to the great thing we already had.
You gotta find somebody on your maturity level who you are mutually compatible with and go for it!!! *KP*
2007-07-11 06:19:37 · answer #9 · answered by KP [hotgurlkim727@yahoo.com] 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
properly if she's never enjoyed intercourse, possibly you at the instant are not doing something stunning in the mattress room. Hm? in spite of the actuality that, there is an rather small share of girls folk for whom intercourse is rather painful and maintains to be even after popular intercourse. in my view, bypass to a intercourse therapist. you ought to bypass with the aid of your self in the beginning up, after which you would be able to ask her if she could desire to connect you. if actuality learn, intercourse IS and important part of a relationship, yet while she's no longer into it, have faith me, it has to do with something different than intercourse. possibly in case you at the instant are not enticing her in sufficient foreplay, or occurring on her or making particular she comes first, she merely does not experience very enjoyed in the mattress room. this is rather person-friendly for intercourse to experience like an criminal accountability to a girl if she's no longer being extremely joyful. study the e book "She comes first" And communicate approximately IT you're never going to comprehend a thank you to delight your better half with out perfect communcation. If she says she does not savour it, then ask her WHY she does not. Ask her what she could desire to do or what she could such as you to do to her. The extra open the communique is approximately intercourse, the extra suitable it's going to be. once you're in the mattress room, evaluate her. Ask her to enable you comprehend what feels solid and what does not. you at the instant are not meant to be a concepts reader. you won't be able to ascertain her exhilaration spots with out her communique. and that i'm extreme with regard to the intercourse therapist element.
2016-10-01 09:24:45 · answer #10 · answered by smart 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋