geez,
I recently decided i want to stay single for a while,
so the past few days, I have noticed more guys checking me out. what's up with this picture, when I wouldn't mind having a bf there's fewer, when I'm wnating to be single there's more,
is it a confidence thing?
give me some explinations please,
2007-07-11 06:12:42 · 10 answers · asked by savywoods 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
It's a self-love thing, a confidence thing, and an 'off-the-market' thing.
1) You know you won't shrivel up and die without a man, and loving yourself that way gives you a nice glow of inner happiness people (lovers and friends) want to be near!
2) You are more confident. You aren't afraid about sending a wrong signal.
3) You know you don't need a man, so that makes you unattainable and therefor in demand!
2007-07-11 06:19:19 · answer #1 · answered by Christopher 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well if the guys checking you out know you want to be single they might be looking for a casual relationship or no-strings-attached flirting. If they don't know about it it may be just because when you're looking for a relationship you are probably missing the signs because you're trying too hard.
2007-07-11 13:17:23 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ya seems like when you aren't looking you put out a different overall vibe. You are probably more relaxed and confident in what you are doing because you don't feel any pressure to make a connection.
2007-07-11 13:27:04 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You just notice it more. It is entirely a confidence thing. When you're not thinking about it, it happens. When you're fretting about it and constantly pondering it, then you tend to second-guess everything.
2007-07-11 13:16:57 · answer #4 · answered by bluedevil1642 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Omg, same thing here. Its weird. But hey theres nothing wrong with meeting guys without getting commited.
2007-07-11 13:18:45 · answer #5 · answered by tata 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Now that you've decided to be single, you are probably more confident... and guys like girls that aren't looking/desperate.
2007-07-11 13:17:46 · answer #6 · answered by Katie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
meh, it happens all the time. try not to think about it because otherwise it will drive you crazy. even sometimes you will find out once you get a bf there will be others out there trying for you to become their gf, its weird and just a coincidence.
2007-07-11 13:17:56 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If your good looking take it as a big compliment that other guys would like to date you
2007-07-11 13:22:02 · answer #8 · answered by gardnermowerman01 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Its called Murphy's Law...
2007-07-11 13:16:13 · answer #9 · answered by Svenbjörn 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it's either the confidence thing or they want what they can't have.
2007-07-11 13:16:25 · answer #10 · answered by ketchupman 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋