*cough* ok.... my boyfriend and i have been together for going on 5 years and i still have a problem talking to him in bed... it's not that he dosen't turn me on or that i dont want to do it it's just that when it comes time for it i lose my words. i can respond to questions but i have a hard time starting the "conversation". can you guys please give me some advice? i would really appriciate it.
2007-07-11 06:08:44 · 8 answers · asked by Ams 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Chris is right: actions speak much louder than words. So seduce the guy. Put your hand on his leg. Run your fingers through his hair and down his cheek. Kiss him. He'll get the message.
2007-07-11 06:36:45 · answer #1 · answered by will_o_the_west 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
"Blue... I think I'll paint the ceiling blue..."
Going on 5 years and still having sex is pretty good to start with, Ams. I'm not sure what it is you want to say since nothing really needs to be said while doing it. Pleasant sounds and moans work just as well. Most guys are happy just to be there, and very happy if you're happy to be there too.
But saying the line I typed above will get both of you laughing, which will relax you, and then you can start that conversation.
2007-07-11 06:17:06 · answer #2 · answered by Flame 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
just force yourself to say WHATEVER is on your mind and say whatever you're sayin in the dirtiest way you can think of in the sexxiest whisper you can muster... with lots of moans and sexual noises...
i.e. you think : "ooh that feels good, it would feel better if he'd go a little deeper"
say: "damm baby that feelz good. f u ck me harder! get deep baby! oh s h i t! you feel so good"
and scratch and pull all on him...
dont talk TOO much though kuz then he's gonna be like "OMG shut the hell up!" cuz then it's just an act...
if you're sayin what's on your mind (if you can even think straight, lol) it won't be fake and it'll be easier than just trying to think up something to say!
you can e-mail me if you want some more advice... or if you don't wanna try what i said... i'll think of something different...
*KP*
2007-07-11 06:15:59 · answer #3 · answered by KP [hotgurlkim727@yahoo.com] 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Just start singing the Theme Songs to various TV shows, either he is so freaky he will like it, or it will creep him out so much he want ask you to say anything ever again.
2007-07-11 06:11:59 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Have you tried role-playing? Sometimes getting into "character" can free you up to say the naughty thing you 'd really like to.
good luck!
2007-07-11 06:13:06 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't have a conversation.
The best seduction is when no words are spoken. He should know what you're after by your actions. That would be a nice treat for him.
2007-07-11 06:14:46 · answer #6 · answered by Chris O 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
DO you mean talking to him during doing it? Is that the time for conversation? Or does he want you to talk dirty to him?
2007-07-11 06:19:51 · answer #7 · answered by aspicco 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
My advice is to have no regrets no matter what you decide. every desicion has a consequence even the right one
2007-07-11 06:16:37 · answer #8 · answered by iamjustbored10 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋