okai so my boyfriend and i have the same best friend her name is samantha! and me and samantha got into a fight cuz i threw something at her! anyways i was texting her to apolgize and say sorry and to plzz forgive me and she kept saying that she didnt wanna be my frined no more and telling me off and it sounded nothing like her! maybe becuz it wasnt her it was my boyfriend he had her phone! and he made me sound soooo stupid i felt so humiliated and embarresed! omg! what do i do...or how do i play it offf???
2007-07-11 04:38:14 · 27 answers · asked by NATALiiE ANN♥ 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
REVENGE!!!!!!
2007-07-11 04:40:35 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Dude!!! having the same best friend with your boyfriend isn't exactly a good idea. Besides he's a jerk if he did do that ( use her phone and pretend to be her) I think that you should just forget it and pretend like it doesn't matter to you and see how they both react or you could get back at them by breaking up with your BF!! depends on how you feel about him is he really worth your friends' friendship?? Personally I think friends are more important but in this case your friend sounds like a um how do I put this nicely well you get me but anyways if shes a true friend she will forgive you and not make it a big deal and come between you and your boyfriend and if she does make a big deal maybe she has a think for your boyfriend. Be careful when picking your friends and knowing who your enemies are.. good luck
2007-07-11 11:55:55 · answer #2 · answered by Jane 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Oh the days of teenage drama. Sometimes I miss it... (this coming from a "senior citizen" in her late 20s)
Next time apologies should be made in person... or at least by physically talking on the phone verbally, not via text. This is a good lesson to learn about sharing private stuff via email and text messages.
Tell your boyfriend that he invaded your privacy and you expect an apology. And call your friend now and make up with her.
Good luck... enjoy your summer! :-)
PS- Obviously this girl is young, so to the person who suggested to use sex insults to get even, you're not helping the situation in my opinion.
2007-07-11 11:45:48 · answer #3 · answered by Emily Chicago 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
honestly if this girl was really a best friend she would know about forgiveness! when someone does wrong they make ammends and move on but if she did not accept it its because she holds grudges, and is not quick to forgive. if she cannot forgive you then move on. i know it may be hard to do this but you cant make her accept your appology. you have said sorry and thats enough said. your boyfriend needs to not take sides and stay out of it it is only between you and her thats all. i had a girl i called my best friend for 10 years i knew her, she quit talking to me for 4 years because we had an argument i kept begging her to forgive me and all and she didnt want to so i let her go and she finnaly came around after holding a resentment for to many years. anyways were friends now once again i accepted her back in my life after ecnoring me for years, because jesus says in the bible if u want forgiveness u must forgive others for hurting you. goodluck
2007-07-11 11:48:17 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell ur b/f he's an a ss and break up with him to show him how mad u are! Then if he apoligizes and sucks up enough go back out haha!! BTW ur b/f needs a new bestie cuz guys should have GUY best friends.
2007-07-11 11:42:09 · answer #5 · answered by Abby Jo 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Kick the guy to the curb and find someone who will care about you and love you. Hold on to your friend and apologize face to face it is much more heart felt that way. Boy friend needs to take off the diaper and grow up. et his cell phone number and place it on every BDSM web site there is
2007-07-11 11:44:37 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
You need to let that boy go, nobody's bf or gf should try and ruin one of your good friendships. It sounds like he could either be jealous of your friendship or is trying to do something else sneaky. Tell him it's over and find somebody better, he is not worth all of that....... And your friend shouldn't have let him do that either, think about it. Good Luck
2007-07-11 11:43:46 · answer #7 · answered by In love with life 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why not put a foot in the boyfriends @ss? Then tell your friend she is a piece of sh it for going along with the little shinanagins.
2007-07-11 11:42:41 · answer #8 · answered by Mastershake 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think you should kick your boyfriends a*s and dump him for being an inconsiderate manipulating piece of crap.
Call your friend and let he in on what he did, and see if that helps you two......but the boyfriend has to go.
2007-07-11 11:41:47 · answer #9 · answered by Candi is Dandy 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
play it cool and ignore it or mabye you can remember a time when your boyfriend did something stupid and if he throughs what you did at you again then through what he did stupid at him trust me he wont bring it up anymore or mabye he has secrets that he doesnt want anybody to know then tell him i'll tell someone your secret if you dont shutup about it so good luck!
2007-07-11 11:42:59 · answer #10 · answered by ang 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
First of all you should ask yourself why your bf would be sending you these kind of msgs. Is he more than friends with your bff? Why did he have her phone? Where they together? It seems you have a bigger problem.
2007-07-11 11:43:07 · answer #11 · answered by rcButterfly 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋