There are three girls in my class (I go to a small school, 30 per class) who the guys are always crushing on. They may dress like hos, but they're practically lobotomized. What's up with that??? Why don't they like personality?
2007-07-11 04:37:41 · 10 answers · asked by xxinhershoesatlastxx 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
No but guys are under a lot of peer pressure. They think they want the girls in the tragic ho-ware, this is what has been sold to them. Certainly they don't want to be the first guy to question the situation because the rest of their buds will tease them for being nerdy or gay.
Guys from 13 -17 are ready for sex but haven't a clue about relationships. They seen a million movies where the guy has hot sex without any commitment, obligation or even conversation.
The girls often think being a ho is the only way to get a guy's attention. They might act lobotomized because they afraid of becoming un-popular if they just be themselves.
In this country we talk a lot about being an individual but that's mostly BS. That's why so many people act roles they see in the media, or why so many people buy the same clothes, listen to the same music and become exact copies of each other.
2007-07-11 04:58:10 · answer #1 · answered by brianjames04 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Sorry. Guys have a thing for signs of sexual maturity and fertility hard-wired into our brains. A study found that men were something like 75% more stimulated by pictures of scantily clad women than women were by pictures of scantily clad men.
Teens, in particular, are facing a rush of testosterone. It's a bit like never having anything but skim milk to drink and then moving straight to a super-sugar caffeine power drink. Until they get adjusted to how their bodies react (and their brains) to the onslaught of hormones from puberty, you might as well just write off rational thought when it comes to chasing girls.
These are not, however, the women that they would want to bring home to mother...or to meet her elsewhere, either. Eventually, after the fad of seeing the girls wears off, your personality may shine through.
2007-07-11 04:45:30 · answer #2 · answered by CarinaPapa 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Because boys like pretty girls. Men look for attractiveness and personality. There's a difference between boys and men.
But girls do the same thing... They never have crushes on anyone but the "hot" guys... And that still happens now, in college! It's repulsive...
2007-07-11 04:41:23 · answer #3 · answered by bluedevil1642 7 · 3⤊ 0⤋
Don't worry. This happens everywhere all the time. At school, at work, etc.
Guy don't automaticaly get 'crushes' on them. Sometimes they figure out how dumb and probably high maintenance these girls are, and go for the cute and special types :)
2007-07-11 04:42:08 · answer #4 · answered by alice_n_malice 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Crushes? Hell no lol... Those are the kinds of girls that guys will look at but would never wnat to marry.
2007-07-11 04:43:47 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
to be honest and i am a women..men want women like that only for one thing..but the girl with the heart of gold and personality wins..it may not be with that guy or this guy...but with the RIGHT guy...feel me
2007-07-11 04:42:17 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I wish we where all blind. This world would be a better place.
It's God's fault for making our brains react to beauty, interesting shapes and colors.
2007-07-11 04:42:20 · answer #7 · answered by johnduo0007 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ignore them, and laugh you bum off when they are pregnant before finishing high school.
2007-07-11 04:43:09 · answer #8 · answered by Stop Stalking Me Nut Job 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
nope, guys for hotness and easiness first and foremost.
2007-07-11 04:41:15 · answer #9 · answered by boston_based_guy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i have that problem...guys are always wanting to play "hide the bone"...lol :)
2007-07-11 04:45:06 · answer #10 · answered by sxclilwhtgrl 1 · 0⤊ 2⤋