What do you do if your period is coming on the day of your wedding? Is there anything you can do to stop your period from coming on the day of your wedding? The groom said it's fine he just wants to have me as his wife and it doesn't matter if we don't consumate our wedding night on the wedding night. But i just feel bad, why did we (girls) have to have periods? Is there anything I can do to make this night special if it does come one the day of the wedding?
2007-07-11 04:22:42 · 23 answers · asked by Ethan's Mama 5 in Family & Relationships ➔ Weddings
I wouldn't mind doing it with my period on but a friend of mine told me its not safe and that i could get sick. I don't wanna take the risk especially if he is not presuuring me to do it. I'm sorry but what is a placebo?
2007-07-11 04:47:53 · update #1
I'm not on the pill. or any birth control.
2007-07-11 04:49:31 · update #2
Talk to your gynecologist and ask if there's something (s)he suggests.
If you don't have one ... see one, pronto. Especially if you're going to be sexually active for the first time. Girls should see one when they're 18 or sexually active, whichever comes first. Get a routine checkup and Pap smear and get some information about birth control (either medication or natural, whichever you prefer), but get yourself educated about yoru body and sex BEFORE you get married.
And if either of you have been sexually active before with someone else, you may also both want to be tested for STDs and such if you haven't already. Not saying that you have one, but it's best to be prepared before you make a lifelong commitment to someone.
The night will already be special if you're serious about being married and starting a life together. Many couples are too tired to have sex on the wedding night, anyway. And if it;s your first time, be forewarned that it probably won't be all that great ... it can be awkward, embarassing and sometimes it'll hurt a bit. But the important thing is to relax, have fun, be patient, be supportive of each other, and remember that you can always try again after that.
2007-07-11 04:57:56 · answer #1 · answered by BeatriceBatten 7 · 3⤊ 1⤋
What a bummer it can be when "Aunt Flo" comes to town, especially on your wedding day! If you are on the pill, talk to your doctor about skipping your placebo pills to skip your period. If you're not on the pill, I don't know of any ways you can stop it. However, your night can still be special. Perhaps you can take a bath together with candles and champagne. Do something that is special for both of you. The other thing to keep in mind is many couples don't have sex on their wedding night because they are just too worn out. Focus on it being a special night - sex or no sex - rather than what the expectation might be. Good luck as you start your new life together!
2007-07-11 04:28:13 · answer #2 · answered by jll1881 3 · 4⤊ 1⤋
You cannot stop nature and he already stated clearly that it doesn't matter.Of the billions of girls married over the years, do you think you are the first to have a period on the big wedding day?? NO...and sex during the period is not against the law. Waiting a few days won't hurt--he obviously loves you and you have a whole life together ahead of you. What happens if you get a headache or you feel sick?? Hey anything can interrupt a sex life. Now enjoy the day and good luck to you both.
2007-07-11 04:29:29 · answer #3 · answered by fire_inur_eyes 7 · 2⤊ 2⤋
if you are the birth control pill then you can stop your period from coming. All you have to do is keep taking the pill, dont stop for your normal "period week". You know how you have 3 or 4 weeks of white pills and then the last week is the green pills...just dont take the green pills, start with your next pack of white pills RIGHT AWAY. This will stop your period from coming. There is NO harm to you when doing this. My doc told me to do that.
2007-07-11 04:51:32 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
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2016-10-01 09:13:22 · answer #5 · answered by delilah 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
are you completely against consumating your wedding on your period? i know it sounds messy, but you are husband and wife now...
if you are on the pill you can skip the last week (placebo) and start a new pack, thats if your last week of pills falls on your wedding day...
a placebo is a substance that has no medical effect...you really dont have to take the last week of birth control pills...the first three weeks are most important...
ive never became sick while doing it during my time of the month, i guess its a personal preference...
2007-07-11 04:26:22 · answer #6 · answered by Mrs.♥ Krasinski 4 · 5⤊ 1⤋
You don't and can't get sick just by having sex while on your period. You can't get sick that time any more than any other time you get sick. Some men don't mind because that is the only time you are truly guaranteed of not getting pregnant if you are not on birth control. Do they still have Today sponges available for purchase? If so, it will take care of the birth control part and you don't bleed as long as you have it in. Sort of like a tampon but you can still have sex with it in.
2007-07-11 05:20:23 · answer #7 · answered by eharrah1 5 · 3⤊ 2⤋
If he doesn't have a problem waiting, I wouldn't worry about it. Purposely delaying your period is not good for your body. My husband and I didn't consumate our marriage on the night of the wedding because we were just too tired after we got home. It's not a big deal.
2007-07-11 04:29:51 · answer #8 · answered by ChaoticKimmy 3 · 2⤊ 1⤋
you're in luck if you're on the pill. with your dr's permission, you can skip the week of inactive pills and start a new month, and that will keep you from having your period. there are also new forms of birth control that allow you to have only 4 periods a year, you might want to ask your dr about that. if you're not on the pill, i don't think there's much you can do about it. just keep in mind that there are more ways to be intimate than just intercourse. kudos to your fiance for being a good sport!
2007-07-11 04:29:04 · answer #9 · answered by LoriBeth 6 · 3⤊ 1⤋
Get some birth control pill s and skip the placebos and open a new box. You will sip one period that way.
Consult a gynecologist and get a prescription for pills.
Good luck
2007-07-11 04:26:27 · answer #10 · answered by Blunt 7 · 5⤊ 1⤋