I met this individual on a chat line and it seems as though we have so much in common. The more I speak with him the more I enjoy his conversation. We've shared so much over the past few weeks where as we want to meet , but don't want to rush things to quickly. Any advice on this, please.....
2007-07-11 04:20:56 · 7 answers · asked by Stacey D 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
We've exchanged pics so I know what he looks like. I have his Office and Home And cell #. I seen pics of his daughter. Sex isn't the issue we've never even spoke of it. We planned on meeting in a very public place and I won't be alone. I never said I loved him, I said I loved the conversations that we've had. Please don't be so quick to judge me or my actions for you yourself don't know me only what i've expressed.
2007-07-11 04:59:46 · update #1
you are emotionally attached.
it seems to me that people become involved on an intellectual level on line, never realizing the person has bad habits and a real life....
i suppose that if you two want to meet, you will find out whether you are compatible someday.
good luck
2007-07-11 04:25:07 · answer #1 · answered by letterstoheather 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do you know the difference between love and infatuation? You don't even know this guy....there is no way realistically that you could have feelings of love for this guy. You are acting under a fantasy of your own creation. You are also putting yourself at great risk. You are going to feel pretty silly when you actually meet the guy face to face and he turns out to be someone you wouldn't want to be seen with. A voice can be deceiving and it's easy for guys to talk b.s. over the phone. Your perception of this guy is probably not accurate. You seem to be too anxious to find a love connection.
2007-07-11 11:29:02 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
you are emotionally attached. in dating, there has to be a physical meet. in attraction, majority of getting to know someone is psychological, also compatibility, and physical. all of these things have to work. You don't even know this guy....there is no way realistically that you could have feelings of love for this guy. because at this point if you meet the guy now and physically he isnt up to par, then you are screwed. your going to feel like you just wasted all your time to know this guy. i dont know why alot of people i know do this. most of the time they get hurt in the end. u need to go out and meet someone, the old fashioned way.
2007-07-11 11:39:37 · answer #3 · answered by Tony E. 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Online chatting isn't real, no matter how real it feels. Go ahead and meet him in public or chat on the phone or something. When/If you do meet him, make sure it's in a very public spot- like the mall.
2007-07-11 11:26:05 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
it is possible to love him..i met someone on myspace and we chat everyday...and i think i am in love with him...i wait for him online..if he really understands you then tell him that you don't want to rush things...but you have a chance of meeting him...wonderful chances like this don't come everyday.
2007-07-11 11:25:55 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes, it's possible, but it's not smart. you need to also know the negatives about the person to see if they are really compatiable with you. continue to chat more and more with them and then meet up. don't have sex right away until you get into a relationship please
2007-07-11 11:25:32 · answer #6 · answered by lookingforanswersandquestions 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No it is not possible...
LOVE isnt a feeling, you cant love someone you've never met.
You can FEEL for them, and have emotional reactions to them before meeting...
But REAL LOVE, is LIFELONG, its COMMITMENT, and it ISNT a feeling.
Geez love has been so degraded its sad.
2007-07-11 11:28:55 · answer #7 · answered by Danlow 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋