Why do men do the things that they do????

Question

This is a two part question:
1)What goes through a mans mind right after sex?
2) What provokes a man not to call after sex???? Is it always to be disrespectful?????? Do men know any better????
Should the man be confronted about the disrespect felt???

I need to tell you guys(because alot of you are assume this) this isn't some guy that I just met......someone that I have known for at least two years, and after holding out for a long time, one thing led to another and we just had sex the other night. Hope that this makes more sense and thanks for all the answers so far.....I am not a one night stand person....just wondering if men have feelings!!!!!

Answer 1

Men Sometimes Never Do Anything Intentionally They Most Likely Want To Sleep Or Relax After Sex While We On The Other Hand Want To Talk Or Go Another Round.. If He Didn't call You The Day After Don't Worry He Is Not Disrespecting You .. Consider The Fact That He Has A Life Still And It Is Not Revolving Around The Sex You Guys Had The Night Before...

Answer 2

1) That was a relief. Now, how do I get out of here.
2.a.) No call after sex because unless men's hormones are running pretty high women are just not that interesting. In fact, the whole sex thing is really pretty disgusting when hormones are not controlling one's mind.
2 b.) No disrespect intended, just not interested.
2.c.) Don't care since the hormone driven sexual tension has been relieved.
3.) Confrontation about disrespect: Since there was none intended he will just look at you like you're nuts, think of you that way and as a nagging female, and likely shop somewhere else as the hormone driven sexual tension once again builds.

Answer 3

*sigh*

Well... depending on the man of course... I am assuming that you feel used based on what you say here. So in your case, I would say he was probably feeling like he got what he wanted and was content with himself. I can't tell you exactly what he was thinking of - but I can tell you he wasn't thinking of you and how you felt obviously.

He's not going to call because he feels no obligation to call. It is disrespectful. If he does call, it will be for another round. Some men do know better and that's why you should be choosy when you want to be with someone.

As far as confronting him, I think you could try - but he probably wouldn't care what you had to say. If he did, he would have spoken to you by now, right? Best bet is to take this as an experience and learn from it.

Answer 4

1. Generally nothing is going thru our minds right after sex other than, wow I had sex and time to sleep now.

2. I would say that if a man didn't call after sex then he just wanted a one night stand, or he doesn't see your relationship as anything more than casual. Men do know better, but most don't care.

If you feel disrespected you should definately confront him.

Answer 5

Whoever that guy was... id say the following...

#1 That was good, now its time to go.

#2 Whos next, doesnt really care.


Not all men are the same, so be careful in generalizing, however most men are when it comes to sex...

Right after sex, in a mans mind, he is worn and waiting to be ready for more.

If he doesnt call, he just wanted a one night stand most likely.

Women are much different, they want to be held afterwards, and noticed the days afterwards...

Men dont think like that a lot of the time...

Its something we should change, because if we did, we'd learn love all the more.

Answer 6

Yes you should confront him. This is the way the man's body is programmed and not necessarily what he is thinking. The more children he can produce with minimal support from his side the better. He may not be monogamous but he wants women who only choose him so he knows that future children are his. The woman is programmed to find the man who will best help her take care of her offspring. A man can spill his seed as much as he wants and his job is done. A woman has 9 months of burden in which she can't produce anyone else's offspring. She has to be extra selective or 9 months of suffering and nutrients.

Now take this hard-wiring and plug it into the modern day miracle of contraception. Man's got this urge to spread his seed but doesn't have to worry about any burdens of raising kids. The man who is enslaved to this emotion is the one you are talking about. Find someone who really is interested in having a family or the future.

Answer 7

ummm...i think my husband wants to sleep after sex. women are just a booty call if the man doesn't call after intimate times. it's not disrespectful on his part because he got what he wanted. men do know better, but if they want sex and not a relationship with you then they got what they accomplished. don't confront the guy about not calling after sex. really all of this should have been established before sleeping together. find someone who wants you and wants you more than just sex

Answer 8

Men do what they do because women stand for it. 1st of all we are not united when it comes to a man, women will almost every time turn their back on their family and friends for a man. Men don't call after sex for the same reason women don't call after sex and for the most part a man's ego doesn't allow him to show his weakness for a woman. A man does what he does because he can get away with it and there's no stopping them until women stand up for each other and themselves.

Answer 9

1) Lots of Men don't get emotional and don't have many of the intense feelings that women have after sex. Men are most likely thinking about “what's next to do” or going to sleep. If you are looking for intimacy, it's contained in those little moments you spend with him when he is happy to be spending his time with a woman whom he respects and admires for her strengths and values.
2) If a man isn’t calling after you have sex, you should ask yourself if you are in fact getting enough respect from this guy period. Make sure you are not changing your plans to be with him, that he is showing signs of interest and is truly pursuing you.

Answer 10

You want a man to think like a woman thinks and it's just not possible. They don't even think about things like women think about things. They have different priorities and most of them do not think with thier emotions much less make decisions based on them. Is this wrong, NO! That is just the way they are. Plus not all men are like what you described. If I were you I wouldn't even bother with the men who didn't call. There are way more juicy, respectful, nice, men out there.