i met someone and i think he's really in love with me but i cant find any reason to use to dump him because he does everything right but i just dont see us together. He is sweet and everything but i dont think we were meant to be. Please help.
2007-07-11 02:22:12 · 15 answers · asked by fruity 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Show him your question and do it fast, so doesn't think that all women are users. In time he will appreciate your honesty.
2007-07-11 02:28:46 · answer #1 · answered by Outside the box 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just tell him exactly how you feel. If your not trying to hurt him then your screwed theres no way to not hurt him. But if your really not satisfied then go ahead and break up with him but you know that old saying. "You never know what you have until its gone" I hope your not the type to leave a perfectly good guy and then want him back later. Because he'll probably move on. Its wrong for you to be in a relationship where you don't feel the same way as the other person so you do need to tell him how you feel. And he'll respect that too. But yes its going to hurt him and if you should want this nice kind guy back later don't be suprised if hes too hurt to let himself love you anymore. Just imagine if you where in hes position and a guy wanted to tell you that.
2007-07-11 02:26:28 · answer #2 · answered by Mr1NCR3D1BL3 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you only need a reason if you want to justify it to yourself.
If you dont feel right, tell him, sorry, but its over. At that point, he has no rights to an answer of why.
Yes, you will feel better if you can give him one, because, as you said, he does everything right, but this is just one of those times when words cannot put forth the mindset.
Just drop him and get past this.
2007-07-11 02:26:46 · answer #3 · answered by teamlessbear 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you don't feel the chemistry, you could probably talk with him.
Sometimes we don't feel a "connection" even though the guy is a wonderful person.... You can't force yourself to be wild about someone... i know, i've been there myself, and very recently.
It's difficult to let someone else down, but it's better to do it now, than wait forever.
take care.
2007-07-11 02:27:05 · answer #4 · answered by letterstoheather 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell him in person, look him in the eyes,,, and say how you feel about him...
anything less and he's gonna think he still has a change to win you back...
if you do it via email or IM,, or over the phone,, he's gonna keep trying to see you and get you back somehow... ... tell him in person... and then... don't even call him or talk to him for a long while... cause then thats like putting salt on the wounds.....
2007-07-11 02:33:18 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
just tell him honestly what you feel and tell him that it will be unfair for him if you'll continue seeing him knowing that you can't give back the love that he is giving you.. it takes two to tango and there's no sense of being together if it's a one way relationship..
2007-07-11 02:27:43 · answer #6 · answered by Em 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
start acting real weird so he wants you to leave. like put his washing in the freezer, give him burnt food, squeeze handcream on the bed, put all the furniture upside down etc, he'll be running before long
2007-07-11 02:29:53 · answer #7 · answered by concaveacorn 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If something isn't broke, then don't fix it. It sounds like your passing up a wonderful guy because your afraid of something.
2007-07-11 02:32:56 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him exactly how you feel. When he explains why you should be together, maybe it'll make you see how lucky you are.
2007-07-11 02:26:33 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Simply explain to him that things just don't feel right...
If you lead him on, he'll be hurt very badly.
2007-07-11 02:25:01 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋