2007-07-11 01:56:25 · 2 answers · asked by Sweet Pea 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Your getting close! But your starting to see the problem right? Why we treat friends less then lovers, but have worse relationships with lovers then friends? Its a twisted situation let me just say this to you, romance is a fantasy. Its a unrealistic way of treating love, love isn't perfect, love isn't always beautiful, and love definitly doesn't fit into a nice little formula that anyone can learn and master. Friendship on the other hand is at the core of ANY DEEP AND MEANINGFUL RELATIONSHIP! Right at the heart! So in the end the only thing that seperates great friendships from great love affairs is purpose of the relationship, not the dynamics. Unfornutunely we've got a world thou that feels that romance most be at the center which doesn't always mean two hearts connected, as much as it means two other things. Which also is why most marriages end because people realize quite frankly they fell in love with a stranger, which is quite a hellish situation to find ones self in when the fantasy of romance has wore off. Of course your time may very some people are thicker headed then others, shot some die loving a stranger, while some can't take a night. But two heats connect really means the world, nothing better, nothing more wonderful, and the beauty is that it can be with anyone. Unfronutnely with gayphobia, pediphilaholics, and other strange sexual situations romance can't..... doesn't help the fantasy.... lets just say our society sees this friendship
2007-07-11 09:21:38 · answer #1 · answered by Brutal Honesty 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
definitely romance... been there and done that.
2007-07-11 19:40:46 · answer #2 · answered by Robert H 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋