seems like males are ONLY after sex nowadays.
Are you male? do you only think about sex?
Could you be in a relationship with out it?
2007-07-11 01:36:39 · 24 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Honestly I would say to start off yes, I know from my experience its sex and then get to know them. I know I'll get slated but that MY opinion. I would not be happy in a relationship without it but it would depend how much I love the girl!
2007-07-11 01:40:52 · answer #1 · answered by Glen 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
This is a pretty misguided generalization. Sex is a biological need, so I can't figure out why some people don't understand why men are into it. However, if women didn't like sex either, there would be no more human race.
But in either case, yes I'm male (18 yrs), and I'm not obsessed with sex. For one, I'm staying a virgin until I'm either married or with the person I'm going to marry. I can't see sex as the only thing guys want from a relationship though. All people need some sort of emotional and intellectual connection with their significant other, which goes far beyond sex.
It seems to me that you have crappy luck with choosing guys. There are so many guys that probably are decent and aren't after just sex, just a down-to-earth girl they can be with. But I suppose it never crossed your mind that you're the product of your own mistakes. Date different types of people for once...
I've come to a conclusion that only girls, not women, are the ones believe that all guys only care about sex, because women have the life experience to see that a man will actually care for them.
2007-07-11 01:43:25 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
1) Guys want sex from girls. Guys want sex AMONG OTHER THINGS from girls they are in a relationship with? Sex is like water in the middle of a desert, relationships are like a dinner at a fancy restaurant.
2) Yes.
3) When I have not had sex in a while I think only about sex. When I am getting some regularly I can start to think about other things from time to time. So, girls that "foolproof" plan of getting the guy to focus on other aspects of the relationship by witholding sex... hillarious.
4) No, and why would I want to? What would be the purpose of such a relationship? Would YOU want to be in a relationship without sex? If so, WHY? Don't you like sex? If a woman ever tried to sell such a deal to me I would think she was trying to play me like a fool and would bail out immediately.
2007-07-11 01:59:30 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, I'm male. A relationship can be strong without sex, but I don't believe it is totally committed. If there were a medical reason for no sex I could understand it. If not, why go forever without it. Thats one of the best ways to totally feel the other persons love for you - and its fun.
2007-07-11 01:43:33 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yeah I'm male. I can be in a relationship without sex, but not for long.
On the other hand, I'm not looking for JUST sex in a relationship; sex is just part of what I'm looking for. I'm also looking for a girl that understands and accepts me.
2007-07-11 01:41:24 · answer #5 · answered by internetnooborlyyarly 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well I can only speak for myself, of course sex is a very important part of everyones life, but I have never been able to just meet a woman and couple hours later jump into bed with her, I have had woman at bars come up to me and ask me to go to bed with them, I just smile and say I am with someone lol. Get to knoe the person first, do not have sex just for sex,
you will respect yourself a lot more beleive me.
2007-07-11 01:42:42 · answer #6 · answered by ? 1 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Yes, I am a male. No, I do not only think about sex. I sure could be in a relationship without it.
The question is: Could you?
2007-07-11 01:40:19 · answer #7 · answered by bluedevil1642 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Well, sex carries importance but not all .A guy always cares for and wants to be the reason for a smile on his girl s face.
2007-07-11 01:49:50 · answer #8 · answered by him h 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
i am a male... i do think of sex but i do not only think of sex that would be a waste of time... i could be in a relationship without sex... that would not bother me one bit... :)
2007-07-11 01:41:13 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well when i was in a relationship with my last bf he was/is a sex adict he just loved sex but he was very romanitiic and an understanding person so you can tell in a relationship what he is with you 4
2007-07-11 01:41:53 · answer #10 · answered by kimmy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋