what if you have a boyfriend that you love very much and he wants to go all the way what do you tell him if your not ready and he is and want to go to the next level but you think it might disappoint him
2007-07-10 17:11:48 · 13 answers · asked by stephanie t 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Don't do it! If he loves you, he will wait. No virgin ever walked down the aisle wishing she weren't a virgin, and no groom ever wished his bride wasn't one, either.
Respect yourself!
2007-07-10 17:16:26 · answer #1 · answered by Tommy B 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Respect yourself enough to tell him that you are not ready. Be firm in telling him. Some guys will sense a weak resolve on this and work to tear it down (not all! Just some.) If he loves you, he will still want to be with you, and will not pressure you to have sex, or to do anything sexual that you don't feel right about. If he can not respect that, then move on to someone else.
2007-07-11 00:18:45 · answer #2 · answered by Jennie t 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just tell him your not ready and to give you some space. He'll understand If he worth it. - okay that was my attempt at good advice. MY advice would be do whatever you want. If you want to make him happy sleep with him. If it's your first time it's no big deal. Tell him that , (I know what your thinking. 'WHAT! Tell him? are you crazy?') but seriously, he'll be gentle and get you so wound up before he goes in you wont even notice the two seconds of pain. It doesn't really hurt that much, or at least it didn't for me. Beleive me, sex is over rated. It feels good and it brings you closer to your partner but all that ohh, youll know when you ready crap people get on with, - its that - crap. If you want to give him that, go for it. If not, tell him he wont mind.
2007-07-11 00:18:48 · answer #3 · answered by Jane ♥ 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Tell him your feelings. If he respects you he will abide by your wishes. Don't go ahead just because you think he will be disappointed if you don't. If he doesn't want to wait for you then rethink this relationship.
2007-07-11 00:17:47 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
don't do it!
no matter how much u want to and no matter much u want to make him happy
don't do it!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
u can wait
if u feel he really does love you
then don't be afraid that he'll be mad
cuz he won't if he really does love you
it's something that everyone remembers and keeps with them for the rest of ur life
if ur very young
don't do it
u amy break up
u never no and if u do u will regret giving it up to him..............
just don't
or wait til u feel that u really are ready
if theres something in ur gut thats not right
don't
2007-07-11 00:28:45 · answer #5 · answered by kkdej89 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'd be more worried about disappointing myself. Put yourself first please--you have to live with this for the rest of your life!
2007-07-11 00:15:22 · answer #6 · answered by poison_angel32 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Think of it this way. You only have one virginity to give. You might want to hang on to it for a special occasion.
Your bf will either hang out or move on.
2007-07-11 00:30:51 · answer #7 · answered by flashmeon3 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I will tell him the truth directly. If he really loves me, he will not get disappointed and he will respect my decision.
2007-07-11 00:20:07 · answer #8 · answered by ~Amor~ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
does it really matter if you disappoint him? come on girl it is your life you are the one who has to live with your decisions. what about std's and pregnancy????? if he won't stand by your decisions then maby he dosn't really love you and you shouldn't waste your time going all the way with him
2007-07-11 00:24:45 · answer #9 · answered by jenni 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Would'nt be swayed by his thinking or attitude.If your not ready.Wait.BFW benefits only benefits the guy.You lose respect,his
2007-07-11 00:17:46 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋