hello well i am very depressed well here it starts
my girl friend was going to run away
i said i support her
she leaves for a friends house
her dad and friends mom talk
( there still talking )
earlyer the dad called me and said
what do u know about julie?
she told me not to tell anybody
so i said i dont no anything glen
he then yelled at me
" your a bad influence on julie, and u are not alowed to speak to her and you two are offically broken up "
i am only 13 can you people please help me?
2007-07-10 16:30:03 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
me and this girl went out for 5 months so dont tell me to chill!
2007-07-10 16:32:56 · update #1
just so u know i found out a few weeks ago that my girl friend was abused, the dad abused her mother until her mother died of cancer
2007-07-10 16:34:29 · update #2
i did not tell her to run away she told me she was running away and i asked her if she wanted to do htis and she said yes so i told her that i supported her
2007-07-10 16:35:59 · update #3
thank u every 1 for helping me with this
2007-07-10 16:39:26 · update #4
sorry to say this but as you arte only 13 there is no way you can support her. the best thing you can do for here is get her to a court judge to see that her dad i abussing her and to see it that is true and they they will find soem one to take care of her till she is ready to make it on her own. that is about all you can do and the last thing you wnat to do is jion her and run away becuase that will only make it worse so don't even think about it.
2007-07-10 16:38:32 · answer #1 · answered by max c 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The best thing you can do even though you don't want to hear it is to listen to the advice of parents. They've been through the situations you're in and you'll one day too see where they're coming from. Your girlfriend shouldn't run away. If there's major problems in her household then she should call a child protection agency. If there's no problem a child protection agency could help with then she should stay at home because running away for things like not getting your way only make situations bad for all parties. And could end up putting your girlfriend in danger with other people. You should encourage her to make right decisions. As she'll more than likely listen to you.
2007-07-10 16:36:35 · answer #2 · answered by joeknockz 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You know what jordan, you are, a bad influence. why would you support someone to run away from home? and it's also a good thing that you broke up. why? you're 13 for crying out loud! you don't even know what love is. so, be happy for your situation right now. it's good that you are separated. because the longer this lasts, the harder it'll get. you may find me going against you, but believe me, this is the absolute truth. you will thank me for telling you this in the near future.
2007-07-10 16:35:23 · answer #3 · answered by Doctor Answer 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Julie's Dad is right. Do you know how worried a parent is about a missing kid? Now you need to stay away from her. And why in the hell is a 13 year old punk calling his girl's Dad "Glen". Show a little respect, you pea brain!
2007-07-10 16:34:20 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
OH MY GOODNESS! You shouldn't be telling a 13 year old girl to run away that's not the way to make things go. You should tell her dad and even though she might be mad at you I bet she will thank you in later life.
2007-07-10 16:33:14 · answer #5 · answered by Floosh. 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
This is a good time to learn that fathers are protective of their daughters. A boy who supports her in running away is on the father's bad side.
Denying permission to speak to her is extreme, but within the range of parental authority. He can't break you up, though. It's not his relationship to break.
2007-07-10 16:35:30 · answer #6 · answered by DW 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Seeing as though you're only 13, I don't think you CAN support her ...which means you need to do what's best for the girl, which is let her father look after her. I don't think you're in a position at all to support in way (no offence).
2007-07-10 16:33:11 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 1⤋
your so stupid to do that. your are basically harboring a run-a-way. you can go to jail for that. grow up and learn some responsibility. forget puppy love and do what is actually right. your 13...what are you doing calling a GROWN man by his 1st name??? *rolls eyes*...i don't ever remember any of my friends or myself acting like this when i was your age. go play with transformers.
2007-07-10 16:34:27 · answer #8 · answered by Ms. Lady 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
you shouldn't be worrying about having a girlfriend at 13 anyway!
but, if what she is doing is going to put her in harm's way then you NEED to tell her parents.....that's too bad if she gets upset with you
wouldn't you rather see her well than harmed, depressed, etc.?
2007-07-10 16:33:32 · answer #9 · answered by His Wife 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
YOUR 13?!?!?! OMG dont worrie about it, im shure her dad will chill out, ive been in that situation.... but i was 19
2007-07-10 16:33:23 · answer #10 · answered by Sean F 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋