My guy and I have been seeing eachother for close to 6 months and have not had sex. He made it clear in the beginning that he did not want to get physical with me until he was ready to committ to a relationship, and I was fine with that. We have done other things, but still have not had sex. He's known for a while that I want to have sex with him, but I've followed his wishes because I don't want to make him feel rushed. He's started hinting lately though that he wants to get more physical, but it never leads to us having sex. He's said that he likes flirty girls who aren't a challenge to have sex with. He then went on to say that I feels like I'm a tease because I don't jump at the opportunity to do stuff sexual with him all the time. I've told him I would have sex wtih him if he wants, but he still has said no. What's his deal?
2007-07-10 13:09:51 · 11 answers · asked by in2you86 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I'll also add another reason he's held off with the sex is because he doesn't want to disrespect me or give me the idea that he's using me.
2007-07-10 13:11:28 · update #1
maybe hes just nervous about having sex. if he's still a virgin then he just might be nervous. just don't push him into having sex because maybe he's going to feel pressured and/or think that your just all about wanting sex.
2007-07-10 13:20:24 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
He doesn't sound sure of what he wants. Maybe he only likes to have sex with women he disrespects and doesn't likes.
Go do something for him like get some lingerie(sp?) and try to seduce him or something. Make it LOUD AND CLEAR to him that you are in the mood.
If he doesn't respond then dump him. Not only he would be stupid but you would be saving yourself from chasing an invisible rabbit.
2007-07-10 20:18:14 · answer #2 · answered by ArachnidDemon 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sounds like hes holding you as an emotional hostage. Somethings weird there, maybe he is having sex with someone else but useing you for attention and affection. Maybe there is something wrong with him he will not face or disclose? You need to do some digging
2007-07-10 20:13:53 · answer #3 · answered by unpublished critic 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are dating a serious whack job. I'd get out quickly and find someone that will take care of you better.
FP
2007-07-10 20:13:21 · answer #4 · answered by F. Perdurabo 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This sounds like a bad relationship. I'd dump him.
2007-07-10 20:13:19 · answer #5 · answered by Astrid A 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Is he a virgin? That's very unusual unless he maybe has some religious hangup.
2007-07-10 20:12:30 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
this guy sounds like he is full of games and only he knows why .... sorry but i dont think any one here can help. Just ask him ..What goin on ?? -GoodLuck
2007-07-10 20:17:44 · answer #7 · answered by Futurebride 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if u wanna have sex with him that badly,jump his bones and see how he feels after the fact!!!!!!
2007-07-10 20:21:51 · answer #8 · answered by phillip j 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe to him, quantity is not necessarily quality.
2007-07-10 20:12:42 · answer #9 · answered by rachiepachie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He doesn't like you. Get over it.
P&S rules.
2007-07-10 20:17:53 · answer #10 · answered by Skatermomof5 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋