i like a girl she knows about it but i accidentaly went uot with another girl becuse i felt sorry for her. the girl i really like was starting to have second toughts about me. what should i do without braking their hearts?
2007-07-10 13:00:59 · 22 answers · asked by Nicholas J 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You did not go out with the other girl by "accident" .. and you can still be friends with both girls as long as you are honest and do not try to mislead them. Let the girl know you like her and that the other girls is only a friend... And the girl you took out let her know you like her for a friend and you don't want to mislead her ... kr
Good Luck!
2007-07-10 13:04:40 · answer #1 · answered by Miss Know It All 6 · 7⤊ 0⤋
If the girl you like doesn't like you, what does it matter if you went out with someone else.
And could you please tell me how you accidentally went out with someone else? Going out with someone is something you do by choice. I don't see how an accident could be involved.
But to answer your question. You have to do what's right for you. Going out with someone just because you feel sorry for them is almost worse than just saying no. And then trying to decide what you should do based on the opinion of a girl who doesn't like you is foolish. If you don't like the girl you went out with, then politely tell her you had a good time but you don't feel any connection. Forget about the girl that doesn't like you. Find a girl who you like and likes you in return.
2007-07-10 13:07:31 · answer #2 · answered by Justin H 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
way to go by portraying the fact that us "guys" are dogs! keep that stuff to yourself buddy! You just opened a whole can of criticism from the ladies! slap him girls! Rule number one...if you really liked the other girl, why did you really go out with the other. two....did you ever think that the other girl may like you more for all your false intentions? and three....how do you explain to the girl you really liked that you went out with the other because you felt sorry for her. Think how the girl will think of you NOW!?
2007-07-10 13:08:15 · answer #3 · answered by glennfiddich 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dating is dating. You have your choice of who you go out with. You can date as many people as you like and it's fine unless you've made a clear commitment to someone. But here's a tip - don't date people who know each other, especially at the same time, unless you want to get a reputation as a jerk among all the girls they BOTH know :)
2007-07-10 13:04:29 · answer #4 · answered by Jille K 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There is no way to avoid breaking someones heart. Its your fault since you went out with the girl for pity. Just break it to her and hope she will soon forgive youwhich I doubt. The girl you like, you persue and see how it ends up but it sounds like she is wishy washy and is doing the same thing you did for the girl you didn't really like. Guard your heart with an iron grip.
2007-07-10 13:05:00 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
if she doesn't like you then why should she care? if she doesn't like you, she's probably just getting a bit interested because she thinks you might be taken.
Also, you just went on a date, right? You don't owe the other girl anything. Just explain that you are not really feeling the relationship or something. Good luck!
2007-07-10 13:05:20 · answer #6 · answered by arsenic sauce 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
my man guess what? i did the same thing. if you went out with her best friend then there no chance of you going out with her because you already date her friend and if she a good girl then she don't want someone else trash or second sloppy. hey u can always try and never give up, that if you really really like her. good lucky my friend.
2007-07-10 13:07:44 · answer #7 · answered by laosboyz828 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Learn a skill, like car repair or dog breeding.
2007-07-10 13:07:46 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
a lot of guys make the same mistake like you. they go out with people they feel sorry for & it gets them into bigger problems.congratulations LOL
2007-07-10 13:05:43 · answer #9 · answered by ☮ 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Accidentally going out with someone is way interesting to me.
2007-07-10 13:04:35 · answer #10 · answered by beez 7 · 3⤊ 0⤋