Isn't it supposed to be about the soul
2007-07-10 12:26:44 · 26 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
True. Sex is not the most important thing in a relationship, nor does it make a relationship (though it can damage or destroy one). The relationship needs to come first, then the sex, and not the other way around. When that's the case, both are so awesome it's not even an issue.
2007-07-10 15:16:53 · answer #1 · answered by Consuming Fire 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If sexual attraction is what caused the relationship to develop in the first place. Then sex in that relationship is truly important and necessary.
But if it's an attraction between souls that caused the relationship to develop. And sex had nothing to do with it. Then you are right that this relationship is supposed to be about the soul.
2007-07-10 19:39:02 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
For some people its the driving force of the relationship, because usually many people just can not wait and rush into it. I say the most important part of a relationship is getting to know each other better and spending time trying to grow and better yourselves in the relationship. What I mean by that is learning how to listen more and talk less when your partner has something important to say, how to care for someone other than yourself. Letting someone be there for you in the good times and the bad. Even be supportive of each other's jobs and different changes in the future. Like if they have to move to another place for work or something encourage them to go, don't be selfish and make them stay because you think you can't go on without them. Sometimes the best part of the relationship is facing the challeges together and see how you both make it out in the end. That is the real importance of a relationship. Not to mention love is in there, but to different people love means many different things.
2007-07-10 19:34:06 · answer #3 · answered by Cursed_Romantic 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
first of all, Belle is a virgin still and endo_chick needs to put the icing on the cake on something else! The soul makes up about 65% and sex is 35%. But realistically, people don't look at the soul, they look at the 35%. And people wonder why the divorce rate is so high these days! I think communication is what is really a huge part rather than calling it soul! But that's just my opinion.
2007-07-10 19:37:43 · answer #4 · answered by glennfiddich 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Have to give miss "sex after marrage" a good old bellylaugh, nothing personal but yeah :). Sex in itself creates strong bonds (chemically anyway) and you also sort of crave it as well.
A relationship based on sex alone wont last though, more often then not you will seek something more, often happens.
I guess in a perfect world, where 2 innocent souls seek each other for a long lasting indepth relationship with no sex just the feeling of ones hand. Also lawyers dont lie, and im a billionare O.o
2007-07-10 19:33:49 · answer #5 · answered by ChAtMaN 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I think you have to connect with the mind, body and soul. (not necessarily in that order) I don't think I could be truly fulfilled by my boyfriend missing any one of those. Sex isn't the most important. But it does play a part in an adult relationship.
2007-07-10 19:37:21 · answer #6 · answered by nugbug456 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think it's a big part of a relationship. I mean, we are sexual human beings, right. It's nice to feel that bond with someone, and make them feel good, and share that intamite side with that special someone. What's wrong with that? I've been in a few relationships where the sex life died out. I wasn't attracted to them physically at all. We became friends, not lovers and it ultimately ended the relationship. It's got to be more than sex, but I think if that goes, you are losing a lot.
2007-07-10 19:33:27 · answer #7 · answered by ohiojosh 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Sex is great in a good relationship - but the higher you place it on the ladder - the more it takes on it on form. Never let it be the most important part - but always build on it - sex can even help you through tough times - even when you think there nothing left! Good Luck
2007-07-10 19:34:47 · answer #8 · answered by Eraser 1 · 2⤊ 0⤋
No, it's not. There is a lot more to a relationship then sex. If a relationship is based on sex, it's setting itself up for failure.
The important thing in a relationship is: honesty, loyalty, togetherness, etc.
Sex is just the icing on the cake of a relationship!
2007-07-10 19:31:07 · answer #9 · answered by endo_chic 5 · 1⤊ 1⤋
LOL. Your a guy.. I can't believe your talking about the "soul." Just take things as they are. Sex is a great part of any relationship.
2007-07-10 19:34:15 · answer #10 · answered by P 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋