How can I split up my friend and his girl friend?

Question

I know a lot of you will have a go at me but my friend has been completely changed and she is trying to change him more. Any ways on getting them to split up without either of them actually knowing it was me, if you get what i mean????
Thanks and please guys lay off on the hate mail and stuff.

Answer 1

sleep with them both and say you will disclose their unfaithfulness unless they promise to keep away from each other . . .

well, it was the only other thing i could suggest after layin off the hate mail -

Just leave it my friend, sooner or later their relationship will crumble and if he wont acknowledge your concerns now...then what do you hope to gain from interfering?

Answer 2

Ok... from what I've seen nobody is giving you a serious answer. I had a similar problem not too long ago. My BEST FRIEND who hasn't been too successful in the past finally finds a girl. OK I'm happy for him... BUT after a couple months I discover how much of a ***** she is because of what she is doing to my friend. All of a sudden, my friend NEVER wants to hang out, NEVER wants to do anything BUT see his girlfriend. EVERY time i call him i get this "sorry cant talk man im with my girlfriend". His girlfriend is much older than him and is in college. SO MAYBE she will find some other guy to ruin his life right? WRONG... This girl was such a pain in the *** no one would go near her. Not even my friends family likes her. I confront my friend about how much of a dumba** he is being, and he throws it back in my face. "Your just jealous!" HA hardly... anyways, I finally stop giving a sh** and hang out with my other friends and let him deal with it. Soon enough, his girlfriend dumped him because he "had no spine". So my friend finally calls me up to hang out and when I stop by i kick him in the ba**s for being such a d-bag and we are friends again.

Answer 3

I wouldn't try to split them up.
But if you're bound and determined - well, I guess I'd start with telling your friend about how he's been completely changed, how you can see him changing more, and how that's a bad thing. Maybe if you and your friend talk honestly about the problems you see - the changes the girl is making in your friend, etcetera - you can have everything out on the table and then not have to go through the horrible process of splitting them up!

Answer 4

Here's the thing. IF you decide to do this, you had better be ready for it to come back and bite you in the butt. Karma is funny that way. Your friend may very well find out if was you who tried/split them up and I don't think he would be happy about it.

Have you tried talking with him about these changes he has made that you don't like?? Perhaps the best dose of reality for him would be for you to quit hanging around.....maybe that would make him realize that he prefers his friend over his gf, especially if you two are close. If you are noticing the changes, I assure you someone else is too...and not everyone will keep their mouth shut about it.

Answer 5

You have to suffer pain to learn. Perhaps this is an experience he will learn from that will prevent a bigger mistake in the future. Unfortunately people move on, it happens and you have to move on with them.

I've watched many a close friend manipulated by a girl. You can't stop attraction. Watch and learn from a distance and get on with your own life. His mistakes might prevent you making the same and him making bigger ones later.

Though I don't tend to find out their situation to gloat as that would make me care! It's just, "Bye, have a nice life!".

Answer 6

you call yourself a freind, just be there when the split happens, back off away from him, he wonder what's going on, or he will find he is REALLY in love with the girl. And guys call girls jealous, hummmmmmmmmm.At lest we are jealous over Females, trying to take our MEN.

Answer 7

if they have e-mails then send ur friend a e-mail cursing her out and do the same for her girl friend if they ask u 4 some advise say just split up and tell them no hard feelings!!!

Answer 8

That is cruel and you could end up losing your mate for good - BUT.....

I'd get a pay as you go mobile and start texting her, very regularly, pretending to be someone she's seeing on the side. Do this mostly when you know your mates with her! Thats bound to cause a few problems between them. It helps as you know her name and maybe some more personal details to add to the texts! Your mate is bound to want to know who is texting her so regularly.

Answer 9

Is he a zombie? Then you would have to cut his head off and your friendship will be over anyway.

Is he braindead? Again, no matter...the friendship is over anyway.

Is he stupid?

Hmm. Yeah, maybe that last one. In which case you don't need stupid friends.

OH WAIT.......I KNOW......he's just a guy. And he is FULLY AWARE of his life and what he chooses, and he's chosing to do what SHE wants not what you want so you're pissed.

Face it, you are complaining about HER wanting your friend to go whichever way SHE wants....

and all you want to do is to get him to go the way YOU want.

What's the difference between her and you???

Answer 10

i'm sorry i know you said lay off the hate mail but please can i just say this?? back off!! someone tried this with me and my partner not long back- turns out he was just jealous ( not because he wanted the girl but because he wanted his mate to hang around with as he had no one else to hang out with )
people tend to change when they're in a relationship he has responsabilities now, not just hanging out in the nearest boozer