are trying to set up this really nice and sweet girl who goes to his church, and he is 40 and single and never been married and has no girlfriend. He gets angry when we bring her name up or physically runs away when we try to set up or introduce this girl with him. What is with him? Is he normal?
Usually guys I know would still like to be introduced even though nothing may come out of it.......
2007-07-10 11:45:14 · 10 answers · asked by Born Valentine's Day 5 in Society & Culture ➔ Etiquette
Wow, the 40 yr old virgin.....I mean homosexual. He's gay girly....all signs point to it. He could at least be man enough to say he is not interested. He is completely blowing his cover and sooner or later people are going to figure him out....that's if they haven't already.......
2007-07-10 11:55:47 · answer #1 · answered by Bella 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Maybe it is just this particular girl, try another girl. Why would you want to set someone up that don't want to be set up? maybe he likes being single.
Personally I would be offended if someone constanty tried to set me up, you are setting your self up for a big explosion. I would hate you. Also there is the posibility that he is gay, You are prying too much, stop doing it. Now a days getting married and having a family is financially impossible for some people, you need to mind your own business.
2007-07-10 18:58:39 · answer #2 · answered by NANCY J 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Perhaps he just flat out doesn't want to be set-up with her. He may not like being set-up or having friends/co-workers get involved with his love life, it may feel intrusive to him. He's not obligated to be married or even date, he has his own reasons and the people in his life should be respectful of that.
2007-07-10 18:54:22 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
There is nothing wrong with asking someone if he would like to meet someone. However, he has made it clear that he does not want to be introduced to her for his own reasons. A simple "no thank you" would be a mature way to decline.
2007-07-10 19:02:44 · answer #4 · answered by jodie 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
He might be gay or he could have had a bad experience and has decided to never get involved with anyone ever again.
2007-07-10 18:48:53 · answer #5 · answered by Purdey EP 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Who knows....maybe he's gay. Whatever the reason, why cant your dumb co workers just leave the guy alone. Let him find his own true love in his own time.
2007-07-10 20:54:09 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
maybe he's gay. maybe he doesn't want to be thought of as a charity case. i don't like set ups. why not all get together for dinner some night and have them meet then. better yet, ask him if he'd like to meet her.
2007-07-10 18:52:40 · answer #7 · answered by racer 51 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Maybe he feels like your putting him on the spot, really it's not appropriate to interfere when someone is not ready to meet someone new.
2007-07-10 20:15:10 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
maybe he doesn't like people meddling with his life
2007-07-10 19:56:05 · answer #9 · answered by twosey ♥ 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
for both of their sakes........"leave it alone"
2007-07-10 19:57:57 · answer #10 · answered by amber 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋