is this bad? would u think of dumping me if.....?

Question

me and my bf have been going out for about a month and since school ended and summer holiday started we have hung out once :| and this whole time we have been in the same city and stuff. like we try hanging out but something always comes up and messes up our plans. and he never calls me, i have to call him first and most of the time his paretns say hes busy and cant talk. its been about 3 weeks since i havent seen him and i really miss him
do u think he is thinkning of dumping me?
would u dump sumone if u havent seen them in awhile?

oh and he dosent have a computer so i never get to chat with him on msn and stuff. dosent got a cell phone either..so the only way to talk to him is by phoning him

Answer 1

I've been there on some flop summer romances. If it sounds like you both are making an effort, then you can work through it. However, it sounds to me like you are making all the moves, and he's not doing jack. And, when you do make an effort, his parents put the squash down. Does he have e-mail, myspace, cell phone where you can reach him? If so, try that and see what's up. If that doesn't work...it's the summer time baby and I'd get out there and start having you some fun and put this boy in your rear view mirror. Hit the pool, hit the mall, whatever you kids do. Life's to short to be sweating over some boy who isn't even making an effort. Good luck and let us know how this ends up.

Answer 2

i wouldn't want to dump someone after a while but i would consider it if i saw there was no connection. and maybe when you call his parents don't tell him you call and that's why he never calls back cause he doesn't know but at the same time he should at least called you by now. if anything he might not want to be with you and doesn't know how to tell you so he doesn't call you or answer any of your calls. either way you should get to the bottom of it and see whats up. try going to his house or keep calling every other day but only once or twice in that day. if you still cant get a hold of him in another week i say you move on and leave it at that if he call some time after that which i doubt he will but if he does tell him that you moved on cause you didn't know where you guys stood and you couldn't live your life waiting for him to decided on what he wanted and when he was going to call. well hope this helps cause this is what i would do.

Answer 3

I don't think he's going to dump you, but some boys start ignoring you then he's going to dump you, but others are differnt you know?
Well like I haven't seen my boyfriend in like what 2 months and 1/2 and like I really don't think he's goin gto break up with me so you should just not get nervous about this.
You should really think about this over.
And if you thin khe's going to break up with you, you should really talk to him about this.
And remember follow yor heart always!
GOOD LUCKK!!!! =]

Answer 4

Not right away, but I would think over my relationship with that person. If they don't call, don't take my calls, or don't even try to see me, then they probably really don't care for me as much as I hoped for. I'm sorry to say it, but that's what I think. Hopefully, that isn't the case for you, but it's something to consider.

Answer 5

If u can't call him, drop him an e-mail. If he still does not call you. Move on! Why waste anymore of your precious time if he doesn't even bother!

Answer 6

If he isn't making an effort to see YOU then you must not be as important to him as he is to you.....so get on with life and find someone who DOES care.

Answer 7

You have already been dumped...you are just alittle slow on the up take.

Answer 8

If i were you i'd confront him about it and if you think hes cheating on you or ignoring you, id dump HIM.

Answer 9

He's not your boyfriends. You're just friends. this is not a real relationship.

Answer 10

It sounds suspicious to me...