Every guy that I like never likes me back. I haven't had a boyfriend in two years. I feel like giving up and not even trying anymore. All of my friends are paired off and I'm always the third wheel in any situation. I'm sick of being the only one with no one. Please help?
2007-07-10 11:35:59 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Have some guy friends write your phone number in the bathroom stalls everywhere--good advertising is the key to success!
2007-07-18 11:16:29 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I know you probably don't want to hear this, but here goes... Start at home. You have to be happy with yourself and to me it doesn't seem like you are. If you are looking for someone maybe you should stop. Usually when you are trying to fill a void in your life, you act on impulse and tend to end up with a square peg in a round hole. Work on yourself. Do things that make you happy and a more calm person. Men can sense desperation and it's not attractive. If you feel like the third wheel all the time, separate yourself from the group for a while. That is never a fun position and it makes your situation seem so much worse. Take some time out for you and trust me the minute you start being content and not worrying about it, you will be beating them off with a stick!
2007-07-18 08:42:53 · answer #2 · answered by hamptoncutie204 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ooh, that's a tough one. I think I'm in the same boat, but its because I refuse to settle. I think its so true that the ones you like rarely like you; but the ones you don't like, stalk you.
With that being said, I guess it depends on who you want attracted to you. Whether its some guy at a bar, your friend, or even a coworker, guys like flirting. Just don't give off too much and remember that you always have the upper hand. Play hard to get once you get that one you want to notice you. Good luck!
2007-07-18 11:38:08 · answer #3 · answered by Charlie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I know that it is hard feeling like you are the only single in a paired up world.
You have to be yourself, and trust that in the end things will work out for the best.
2007-07-18 11:06:30 · answer #4 · answered by keezy 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like you are not meeting the right guys. Do not worry so much about what your friends are doing. Be yourself. Don't try so hard. Don't be in such a rush or you will wind up with someone you wish you hadn't. Hope I have helped with your dilema.
2007-07-18 06:00:28 · answer #5 · answered by txpainthorse 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think that maybe you are trying to hard...the best boyfriends come when you are not looking believe me...but you should not have to be less than yourself for someone to like you or to get a guy...just be happy and live life the right one will come when you least expect it...
2007-07-10 11:40:37 · answer #6 · answered by <3<3<3<3 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
just b urself b/c if u start acting all full of urself & popular u will never no if hes really the right guy & what happens if ur glam wheres off a true guy would love u 4 who u r & ur personilty & stuff lol=D
2007-07-18 10:38:04 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be yourself. That is the only way you can be happy. And the right guy will like you as you are. Any one else that wants to change you is bad news. Don't go there.
2007-07-10 11:39:35 · answer #8 · answered by ? 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Stop trying and be the mix between Pam Anderson and Angelina Jolie.. Simple as that, isnt it?
2007-07-17 23:59:08 · answer #9 · answered by Zbenguici 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe ur just approching them wrong dont come off to strong if he tells a corny joke or n-e at all it means hes flirting dont wait for just just compliments u no hope i helped
2007-07-18 08:38:16 · answer #10 · answered by Kim 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋