How can you gain your girlfriend's trust back ?????????.........?

Question

I fucked up so many times and i really dont know where to start there are so many mistakes i have made but i cant take them back to make evreything go better we have been together for about a year and a half Lets just say i cheated on her and lied to her about some other things but now all she can do is ***** left and right about things but then i went to a club and a girl started to dance with me and i didnt stop it but i should have but my girlfriend was there stalking me to see if she could gain my trust back to c when i get home if i tell her what i have done but i said we went to 2 bars when i got home. but i had a feeling she know because of what she was saying when i got home from the club but i do want to spend the rest of my life with this girl i dont want to lose her i want to treat her much better then i have been if you were her what would you do and if you were me what would you do if someone can give me a good answer please do so say what ever you want i just want to know

Answer 1

You put yourself in this situation and have no right to be sore about the consequences. You will never truly get her trust back, especially if you keep acting this way. Oh, sure, you will probably be able to stretch out the relationship a bit longer, but will it be free of grief? I don't think so. You don't respect her, so she shouldn't waste her time with you anymore. If I were her, I would have left you a while ago. If I were you, I would move on if trust is important to you, because you will never have it again from her.

Answer 2

There is an old saying that goes like this: trust is freely given at the outset. Once it is betrayed. it has to be earned. Earning back trust is one of the most difficult things for any one to accomplish and if you do win her trust back,it is going to be an extremely difficult road for you to travel.However, if you truly love her and want to be with her,then you can start with the following ideas:1)tell her the whole truth even about things she may not know anything about. This way ,there are no more future surprises for her.2)explain that you love her very much in spite of your failings and don't want to lose her.3)ask her if there is anything you can do to make it easier for her to forgive you and earn her trust again4)answer all her questions even if some of the responses might make it harder to her to forgive you.Don't forget you are trying to win her trust back.5)finally, understand it is her decision to make as to whether or not to give you another chance; you can not demand it or set the time frame.assuming she decides to try again, she is the "driver"and makes the decisions. I think I believe you when you say you want to change and treat her better.So I am hoping she does decide to give you a second opportunity.But it won't be easy on you and you can not slip up even once or that will be the end.Good luck.

Answer 3

Well if you are trying to gain her trust back i dont think you should be out clubbing. That is the last place you should be going. If i were you i would just try not going out to much for now. Spend most of your time with her...try taking her out with you when you go out with your friends. Make her feel special and show her how much you love her. I wont lie to you it will take a long time, but if she is worth it then do it.

Answer 4

There's only one way to regain trust. Don't break it in the first place. Once broken, it can never be the same. That's true of all kinds of relationships, not just personal ones.

In other words, find a backbone and use it to learn some personal integrity. If she's all that then you learned an expensive lesson.

Answer 5

first dont ever go to a club without your girlfriend again. if u cheated screw you. but the only way is that you have fun with her, like go bowling or something, see a movie. get her gifts most important thing is jewlery. and when she starts to act like she can trust you. go for a couple more weeks then pop the question.

Answer 6

when u destroy a girl's trust, its hard to restore it because you hurt her and caused her a lot of pain. the only way to can get her back is by showing her how u love her. say ur sorry. ask for forgivness. say you've changed. just keep on trying and she will eventually know ur really sorry

Answer 7

if you really love her, make a beautiful wish for her! http://www.themostexpensivewish.com/ ; it's a good way to express your feelings, to tell her something special and to get another chance ; certainly she will be touched...