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If not when is the right time to tell him???
We’ve been seeing eachother for three months…hes already told me he thinks he loves me…but I haven’t told him yet. I feel like keeping it in is putting so much weight on my shoulders and when I am around him its hard to hold it in, but at the same time easy because I am scared he doesn’t want to hear it. The last thing I want to do is come across to strong and scare him off. He has already told me he thinks im too young to know what I want…hes 23 im 18. But unlike everyother 18 year old girl who says “well im not ur average 18 year old” I have proof. I am not gonna sit here and explain why I believe Im not ur average 18 year old. Cuz I don’t want to keep you reading. I just hope u will take my word for it. And if you need additional information just message me and I will fill you in. But I will tell you I am very inexperienced with love…

cuz like everyone else it’s a scary yet exciting feeling and no one has the exact answers whether they have answers for everything else or not.
But I do know my heart beats faster when I think of him, I feel my eyes pool up with tears when I think of never seeing him again or losing him. Just hearing his voice makes my day, his smile makes me weak in the knees, and I feel so safe and comfortable when im in his arms. I have the most fun when me and him just do what we both love and that’s sittin on our lazy butts watchin family guy, reno 911, and any other funny movie. I seem to lose my breath when he kisses me and I feel like I stepped into wonderland or something. So lame to be sayin it like that, but I have no idea how else to explain it.

Just a comment about the age and love thing.

Every year you change and your thoughts change...but if you truly love something and have a passion for it, then it doesnt change it just increases with your maturity. Unless you go through a situation that changes your entire view and perspective on it will it change. But everything in life impacts everything else in your life. So i say to those older people who sit there and say...I am totally different then i was when i was 18 "DUH"!! But it doesnt always necessarily mean that you go from one extreme to the next. So people stop being so close minded PLEASE

Answer 1

feel it in your soul

Answer 2

It is important to be honest with your partner and you should tell him how you feel. I have also been with my boyfriend 3 months and recently told him I'm in love with him. I said it first and he didn't say it back. It made me cry but he was so supportive and sweet. He said the time just has to be right before he can say that to me. I think he may be waiting for his divorce to be final which is in October. Thats a long time to wait but he is so worth it. He now knows how I feel and he still wants to be with me. Also - I don't think 18 is too young to know if your in love or not. My sister has been very happily married to her husband for 25 years and they met when they were 16... Hang in there and just be honest with your guy about your feelings.
Good Luck

Answer 3

well if you hold it in it will weigh on your shoulders, but i have a feeling that telling him will put a weight on your shoulders. in my case i told my ex that i loved him but it did very badly and it put more pressure on me to do better in the relationship and that didnt do so well and we ended up breaking up and i really did love him and i still do and i cant get the message through to him that i do love him. but that's besides the point. the point is if i were you i would tell him what you feel but beware that it might put more pressure on you both. and with a lot of guys, you tell the guy that you love him and he starts pressuring you for sex. im not saying that you boyfriend is that way but a lot of guys are so be careful. good luck.

Answer 4

Actions speak louder than words. He knows how you feel, unless he is an idiot. And he has made he clear by his words that he is not ready to hear your words. Wait until he is ready. Besides, what do words matter. What he does is more important than what he says. Same thing for you.

Answer 5

You have the rest of your life ahead of you,, your wasting it on someone you do not even know.. you think you know because of 3 short months, and go by some words that were spoken. You need time even tho your so experienced.. you still do not know nothing

Answer 6

You talk too much.

Answer 7

if you feel it, tell him. you write too much, and think too much.