ok... i think that i might be preg. and he has a girlfriend and he tells her that he's in love with her and he did tell her about me.. i took a P.T (preg. test) and it came back positive. I'm only 14 and i dont believe in abortion !!!!! HELP
2007-07-10 10:46:21 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Your 14! You should not be having sex in the first place. The only responsible things you have said is that you dont believe in abortion. Since you are probably unable to support your baby you need to consider adoption, you also need to tell him so he can have his say and so that his girlfriend knows what kind of person he really is. Then you need to educate yourself a little better about 'safe sex' for when your old enough and responsible enough to be having sex, oh and STOP sleeping with other peoples bf's.
2007-07-10 10:56:14 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well Honey: I think it's time for you, your parents and him, to have a sit down and work out this situation.
How old is he, over 17, this means it's statuary rape in most cases and, it's out of all of your hands and, goes into the hands of the District attorney now.
If he's under age, then your all going to have to figure out what to do next, marriage is out of the question at your age, and I'm sure he's in no question to aide you.
Your going to have to apply for help through the State so your parents won't have the burden.
Right now, you should start making plans and let your parents know right away.
2007-07-10 17:54:19 · answer #2 · answered by cowboydoc 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm sorry to state the obvious but shouldn't you kinda of thought of that before you started having having sex with him? Either way, if you don't believe in abortion then give up the baby because you are way to young to ruin your life any further unless you can care for the baby yourself, which I severely doubt because you can't even use a freakin condom.
2007-07-10 17:55:43 · answer #3 · answered by Vicky 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are only 14, and personally I feel that you are being taken advantage by your friend's brother. He shouldn't have sex with you since you are under age, and when he already have a girlfriend.
You should let the adult know, or report to the Police.
2007-07-10 23:05:06 · answer #4 · answered by Tan D 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Welll you already decided.... if you don't believe in abortion...then you will have the baby... Which means mom has to know.
Whether he stays with his gf or not...he is stuck being a father here.... so his parents need to talk to your parents and make plans...
2007-07-10 17:50:05 · answer #5 · answered by westfield47130 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You've got problems and probably have an As* whipping coming when she finds out along with one from your mom and dad.
2007-07-10 17:50:43 · answer #6 · answered by james 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well if the girl knows about you then tell him that you might be pregnant. but i wouldnt worry about him he probably isnt in the financial statndings to support a kid what are your parents going to do
2007-07-10 17:50:57 · answer #7 · answered by chad t 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
wow !!!!! ****!!!! j/k sorry.. any way you should come over aging today was fun
2007-07-10 18:35:45 · answer #8 · answered by Jenna W 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋