i was just wondering how do you choose a best man when you have two brothers and a friend that is like a brother.
2007-07-10 10:40:12 · 13 answers · asked by nichole b 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Weddings
i am asking for the groom he is so confused and doesnt want to hurt anyone because they all mean so much to him
2007-07-10 10:58:24 · update #1
I would pick the best friend simply because he has two brothers. My cousin did this when he got married. He also has two brothers with whom he is very close. He asked the friend that introduced him to his wife to be the best man because he couldn't choose between his brothers. Both brothers were also in the wedding.
2007-07-10 11:19:09 · answer #1 · answered by maigen_obx 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
So, first question...are the two brothers your brothers, or your groom's brothers?
Assuming they are the groom's brothers, I would have to ask if either one of them was closer to your groom than the other? We all love our siblings, but often, we like one more than the other. If there is one who's closer to the groom, I'd choose him.
My second choice would be to choose the friend, so that neither of the brothers are offended.
2007-07-10 17:48:30 · answer #2 · answered by abfabmom1 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe go with the friend and explain to your brothers it was because you couldnt choose between them. Or, do like I am doing, dont have a MOH or best man. Just have bridesmaids and groomsmen who are all equal.
2007-07-10 17:45:35 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's tough. He could have them all as groomsmen, and give no one the Best Man designation. Or, just have the friend as Best Man so he doesn't split the brothers...
2007-07-11 10:24:19 · answer #4 · answered by Lydia 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There are no rules that say you have to have a best man, or that you can only have one. Let your fiance choose who ever he feels closest to and leave it at that. If the other people get offended then they just need to deal with it. People make way to big of a deal out of this stuff in my opionion.
2007-07-10 17:49:10 · answer #5 · answered by Jessica S 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Friend first. as how can you choose between 2 brothers?
2007-07-10 17:43:15 · answer #6 · answered by eugene65ca 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Make all of the men the best man, and all of the girls be the maid of honor. Let them pick out their own style of clothing, but in same colors.
2007-07-10 17:54:30 · answer #7 · answered by Kasandra 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
i had a friend who had 2 best men (both brothers)
2007-07-10 17:51:34 · answer #8 · answered by its about time 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
we had three groomsmen in our wedding and all of them were our brothers. my husband picked my youngest brother because he feels closer to him, despite the age difference. i suggest picking the one whom you feel the closest one, even if that is the one who is a friend.
2007-07-10 17:47:28 · answer #9 · answered by Christina V 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You kind of seem like the girl. Or at least your name does. Why are you choosing the best man?
2007-07-10 17:43:23 · answer #10 · answered by hotchic 5 · 0⤊ 3⤋