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my niece is out of control she dont listen 2 nobody and she always do something and always say i not gonna 2 get in trouble she is a bad *** **** wat do i do? i mean i cant give her wipen who can

2007-07-10 10:09:12 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships Family

9 answers

It sounds like your niece has disconnected for the adult figures in her life. You'll have to reach out and reconnect before she will want to obey authority figures again. Whipping, bribing, threatening won't work for her at this point, you will just have to reach out and bring her back into your arms again. May I suggest that you go for a walk. Walk and talk without telling her what to do. Find out what she wants out of life. In other words reach her not whip her. Show her who you are by letting her know the things you like and the things you dream about, set up a place to talk and reach out to one another. Let her know that you are there for her. After the walk and you have made a connection, give her something to do that is simple and easy to do, something she can act on right away. What you are doing for her is building up a way to have her connect through obedience and respect. As the trust is built, you can increase the chores and respect for your authority little by little. Keep the walk and talks peppered in between the chores, so that you stay connected.

2007-07-10 10:32:37 · answer #1 · answered by fieldhouse39 3 · 0 0

i'm assuming you purely see her each and every sometimes and not on an extremely universal foundation? there is not a lot you're able to do exceedingly without the mother and father help. i might frankly purely positioned my foot down and tell the mother and father which you're sorry yet her habit isn't allowed on your place and till she will approaches to act suitable that she isn't welcome on your place. this is going to reason a great combat, yet i don't see a manner around it rather - her habit is unacceptable and till the mother and father are conscious purely how unacceptable it rather is not something is going to alter. Biting, kicking the dogs... thoroughly unacceptable. If the mother and father attempt bringing her over she gets the two one warning and is asked to bypass away or do exactly not permit her in the residing house till her mother and father are prepared to stipulate what new strategies-set they're making use of to motivate greater suitable habit. I actually have a undeniable desires youngster who does not continuously understand good from incorrect or gets too labored as much as have the skill to regulate her impulses and that i may well be mortified if she did what your niece does. If she became kicking somebody else's dogs we'd be leaving. If i assumed she could not handle the thrill of being at somebody else's residing house or some new place i might bow out or attempt and be arranged to bypass away if the habit have been given too undesirable. If the youngster is specific desires there must be some leeway as they proceed to income a thank you to act in diverse circumstances/places, yet through fact the mother and father are doing actually not something, then not something is going to alter and this newborn will proceed those undesirable behaviors.

2016-12-14 05:02:36 · answer #2 · answered by lacuesta 4 · 0 0

I dont know how old she is but threatening to send her to one of those boot camps might straighten her out before she gets into some serious trouble.

Back in my day when you could
still smack kids, it often helped
more than it hurt. She just
sounds too wild.

You might be able to have a police
officer come over ( I dont know if they
still do that anymore), but the police used
to go over to a kid who was unruly house and
have a good long talk with them about where they
were headed and where they would end up if they didnt change their ways.
They are good for intimidating kids to stay
out of trouble.
If thats no good then someone
that she looks up to or respects,
should talk to her, or just put your
foot down and keep it down.
Obviously she thinks that she can
get away with anything wwith you.
You have to just shock the devil out
of her one day by doing a complete
180 degree turn in your personality,
like you are the one who is crazy!

In some cases, a kid just has
to burn their hand on the stove
even if they've been told a hundred
times not to touch it.

2007-07-10 10:22:30 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

First of all, how old is she? If she's a toddler and she spends a lot of time with you, and if she acts up, give her a timeout and make her sit down with you and not move. Let her know if she acts up, she gets a privilege taken away and that teachers and friends' parents won't tolerate that behavior. (As a teacher, I know I have to tolerate more than I'd like to, but I don't tell little kids that.) Will her parents/guardians listen to you if you tell them how she's acting? Do they tolerate acting up? Do other caregivers/baby-sitters tolerate that? (I'm assuming you're not the legal guardian.)

If I knew more about how old she was, I could give more information.

2007-07-10 10:14:00 · answer #4 · answered by Karen 5 · 0 0

how old is she? if she is old enough like 13+ take her to a day at the local jail or if you know any cops have them stop over and just talk about the girls he has seen throw way their lives just loud enough that she can hear.
if she is under 13 or even like under 10 your gonna have to talk to her parents and hope for the best really there isn't much you can do cuz she really just needs a good beating i say and you can't do it w/ out getting in trouble

2007-07-10 10:14:02 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

She needs real concequences for her actions. If you are not the one that can discipline her, then remove yourself from the situation. Tell her mom that you can't be around her until she is put in check.

2007-07-10 10:15:18 · answer #6 · answered by huskies fan 2 · 0 0

Her parents need to give her the "wipen".

2007-07-10 10:12:20 · answer #7 · answered by Truth is elusive 7 · 0 1

I have a cousin who is almost like that too, we can't discipline him anymore :\ that little brat sended us to court -_____-;
but yeah, well you can't do much, but make her jealous, or use reverse physcology on her or maybe a bribe? (candy, toys, money, etc), she'll probably listen?

2007-07-10 10:13:09 · answer #8 · answered by Vickyy<3 5 · 0 0

Her mom can.. and should be.

2007-07-10 10:14:43 · answer #9 · answered by lv82 3 · 0 0

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