Say for example you and your current significant other just got married then decided to have intercourse the same night but as you were both getting undressed you see that he or she has the opposite genitals what would you honestly do.
2007-07-10 10:03:13 · 35 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
WHAT A SITUATION....
I mean hasn't there been an opportunity for both to have known one another INTERNALLY more than being shocked at the opportune moment...
Well, if this actually happens with me, I will surely be shocked and speechless for some little time, and then I will have to discuss this whole thing in much of details ON HOW DID HE EVER THOUGHT I WOULD ACCEPT KNOWING SHE WAS ACTUALLY A HE RATHER...
Blame will not do any of us any good, but for sure it will be the last night ever we r both under one ceiling...
It is more like CHEATING than any other feeling that will surround me with his act...
Jesus...
I wouldn't even like to think of myself in such a situation...
2007-07-10 10:19:43 · answer #1 · answered by FOREVER AUTUMN 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I sympathise with reactions such as "scream" and for myself I would probably utter some sort of swear word and then quickly apologise. Following that, I imagine that if I had married them then my love for them would overcome this physical surprise. However, I would anticipate keeping it a secret for a long while. Intercourse might have to wait for the shock to settle in. I'm sure they would understand. Also, I'm sure there would be someone of the opposite sex out there willing for a threesome.
2007-07-10 10:19:02 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Annul the marriage, since the wedding only took place on the grounds that you were led to believe that your significant other was of the opposite sex to you. Since they were dishonest about such a basic and important thing, you have every right to legally do this without suffering court cases and the stresses of a full blown divorce. ANNUL!
2007-07-10 10:07:50 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
CRY - and ask right away for an annulment. The reason is because if i made it that far and decided to marry - someone left out some important info that I should have known before the wedding occurred. I find this fair. You?
2007-07-10 10:08:51 · answer #4 · answered by Charley 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Honestly....GO CRAZY! Ok ok ok seriously. Depends on the love. Most ppl would get a divorce the next day. Few would find a sex toy to help his or her significant other...wait . I really hope this didn't happen to you. If so good luck and I'd say good riddance.
2007-07-10 10:08:23 · answer #5 · answered by Bohn F 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
isn't that a good thing...don't u want the opposite genitals as your own. i don't get the question.
Also, is there any other type of genders out there i'm not aware of? "calling all females and males" *shrug* i will have to say this is the most stupid question i've ever encountered on this site.
2007-07-10 10:08:19 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Hi.
I would talk over it rationally and respectfully and see what happens after that. Don't just run and get an annulment or a divorce right away. Just talk about it and see what happens. You never know.
Hope this helps!
2007-07-10 10:07:31 · answer #7 · answered by noelle elizabeth 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I've always been curious about this, but if you didn't know this before the wedding - "Here's Yer Sign!"
I'd say go for it and make the best of the marriage. After all parts is just parts. Really?
2007-07-10 10:06:39 · answer #8 · answered by Just Life, Trying To Live It. 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Wouldn't bother me, if we got married it was for love.
IF she lied about it before we were married then that's a different story all together. and even further more, she should have been honest about it from the get go BEFORE the marriage.
2007-07-10 10:07:09 · answer #9 · answered by jedi46300 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well.. I don't know about most people.. but I like to test drive a car before I buy it if you know what I mean.. So I think I'd have come across that problem long before marriage.
2007-07-10 10:07:19 · answer #10 · answered by Terri 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋