I wanna ask this guy out, but every time I talk to him I blank and don't know what to say.. I'm also not sure if he likes me back. What should I say to him?
2007-07-10 09:56:48 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Guys love it when the girl asks them out, so just be conversational, relax and be yourself, unless you are fugly, then save yourself the embarrassment and invest in batteries.
2007-07-10 10:01:42 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Aww... that's cute. Cute, but it's not helping you... Well, you've got to muster all the courage in your heart to stay still and actually speak the words..
All you can do is ask him if he wants to hang out sometime. It'd be good if you can build some foundation on a conversation before tackling the shark, like maybe.. things you both like.. or things he's interested in.. So you can say that if he wants company, he can let you know and you'd go with him..or if you want to be more aggressive, you can just tell him that you both should go hang out sometime, so that you can do this or that (whatever the topic's on) ...just pick the right time to talk to him about it.. and try not to delay yourself.. when the moment feels right, don't let it pass you by. :) Ball's in your court.
2007-07-10 17:02:56 · answer #2 · answered by Rogee 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to demytify the person. The boy is just that a boy. He needs to sleep, to eat, to love, to cry etc etc just like the rest of us albeit maybe a bit better looking. Try seeing him as the human being he is and not as the God you imagine. Note how easy it is for you to talk to your friends or even other guys like your brother or your uncles or other friends but not this one. Once you see him for what he is a regular human being then it will become easier for you to talk to him. I bet if you look closely enough you will find some faults. At the beggining it won't be easy but over time you'll see people as they are.
Also, you just can go ask somebody out just like that. Thats freaky. Imagine you are walkin and somebody jumps from behind the bushes and says "lets go out you and me" Not appealing what so ever. Talk to him a bit then ask him out.
2007-07-10 17:05:39 · answer #3 · answered by mr_gees100_peas 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Consider the worst case scenario. Perhaps he will say no. Maybe he'll laugh at you. Plan ahead and figure out a come back in case you get put into an awkward position. Most likely, he'll say yes and you will have worried for nothing. A little planning goes a long way. Prepare, wear something you're comfortable in and feel good in, smile, and just do it! Nothing ventured, nothing gained.
2007-07-10 17:01:30 · answer #4 · answered by Wendy B 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Find out his prime interest, even if you have to research the subject. Then, you will have something to talk about. Also, if you read a good book, heard some great music, or saw a terrific movie, talk about them. Offer to lend him the book or music. Or ask him if he would like to see a new movie, rent a video. Find out if he likes sports and if so which sports. Invite him to a game. If he plays sports, ask him if you can watch him play some time. Find out when he plays and be there.
2007-07-10 17:06:51 · answer #5 · answered by ladys 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, these are tricky situations. But I say, take the crash and burn route. Just say, "wanta go to a movie," or something short and simple like that. Then see what he has to say. That way you'll know if he's interested or not and can move on and stop obsessing about it.
It's also good if you can get a friend to test the waters and see if he wants to go out with you. That's the easiest route.
2007-07-10 17:00:36 · answer #6 · answered by Ms. Mimsie 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Chat with him about a random subject, for example the weather, anything!
Then when the conversation is coming to a close, nonchalantly ask if he'd want to go get coffee, see a movie with friends, anything like that.
For now it sounds fun and friendly so he'll probably say yes.
2007-07-10 17:00:59 · answer #7 · answered by crazygirl! 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
A friend of mine and the girl I like told me to wait until they show signs they like you. Then ask. Also try asking a friend, that you can trust, if your crush likes you. Try to come up with a good conversation. Think of the topic before you talk to him. I believe the topic should be about the likes and dislikes you share, so observe them carefully, but do not stalk them.
2007-07-10 17:04:25 · answer #8 · answered by red_eye_chimera 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well really i think that you should have more confidence in yourself about approaching this guy. And i also think that you should try to find out if this guy is available because if you've tried to get his attention on different occasions and he's not a major jackass then he would've noticed you by now. So really to tell you the truth i think it's a lost cause!!!!
(sad but true[ i wasn't trying to hurt your feelings])
2007-07-10 17:05:53 · answer #9 · answered by lil bad azz 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ask me out on a friend date first.
Say, "I really wanna see that Transformer movie but all my friends are booked up. Wanna go?"
Or, "I wanna try that new __ restaurant in town, but all my friends are booked up. Wanna go?"
You get the idea.
2007-07-10 17:01:13 · answer #10 · answered by Cal 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just ask. if you never take the risk, your never gonna know. just do it.
say: Do you want to go out sometime?
or you could use a really cool pick up line like: do you have a map? cuz im lost in your eyes.
OR: do you have a band aid, i scraped my knee falling for you.
OR: are you from tennessee? cuz your the only ten i see.
hahaha :] maybe not. dont over annalyze just ASK
2007-07-10 17:02:22 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋