how can i get over the death of my dog?

Question

My dog was a 16 and a half year old multise poodle. He was born before me he was put to sleep yesterday. What can i do to get over it besides getting another dog?

the thing about getting another dog is i cant parents wont let me
and yes it was actualy for the best before they put him down they checked him and found out he had skin cancer was 100% blind and deaf and most of that breed only lived till 10

Answer 1

Getting another dog right away isn't always the best answer. I did that right after my 14yo Sheltie passed away. It was a mistake and I wasn't ready at all. Sometimes it's best to just take a little while and grieve. You never completely stop missing them but after awhile you'll be able to remember your little boy with a smile instead of tears.

All of my dogs have been shelter dogs or strays so I always got some peace by sponsoring a dog at my local shelter in their honor.

Answer 2

I'm so sorry that you lost your companion of that many years. But it was just his time to go. He had a great life and dogs just don't usually live longer than 16 years. Just remember all the wonderful times you've shared with him and don't worry about getting another puppy if your not ready yet. The pain of loosing your friend will deminish a little over time and then maybe you'll be ready for a new pup. If he has a grave site, go visit him often and put some flowers on his stone and talk to him, that helps with the grieving.

Answer 3

OMG i am soo srry about your dog! Well what I would do is I would go to the store and buy a 2 boxes of Chocolate, then come home, get in ur p.j.'s, and watch a movie all day (and don't forget to cry your heart out!!! Then the next day get ur i-pod, or c.d. player, and dance to your music and exercise! Exercise helps getting over things! (and this day you prob. won't cry as much because you cryed the day before!) Thats what would help me. And also try to plan something fun with your friends the next day or so. True friends help you through tough times. If that doesn't help then read books, and do lots of exercise! Write down 10-15 things great that you and your dog did together. And if you can't get over it like that, then go see an adult. Hope you feel better! :)

Answer 4

I'm so sorry for your loss. Pets are so precious--they're a member of our families. You mentioned your dog was 16. Was he having health problems? I'm going to assume for the moment that he was. You may find comfort in the fact that he's not suffering any more. I would suggest not getting a new dog right away. Mourn this beloved pet first. You may never get over the loss completely, but it will get better in time. If you feel you don't want to go another day without getting another dog, take your time. Look around. Don't jump into anything too soon.

Just my advice. I hope it helped. I've lost pets before, and can only imagine the pain of your loss. Please take heart that you loved your pet, and that while he was with you he was happy.

Answer 5

Time is the only thing that will heal your broken heart. And I know that your heart is broken. Pets become family members to us and when we lose them we feel the loss and the emptiness. When we had to put our dog down after ten years (cancer) we tried to get a new dog. We went through about four different dogs and always there was a reason why we couldn't keep it. It finally dawned on us that we had to stop grieving over the loss of Scoop. When the process was over we knew in our hearts that it was time for a new dog, and we welcomed him into our family with open arms. We have had Baxter about 10 years and have not regretted one moment of it. Keep your chin up keep your memories of him close to your heart and give yourself time. Cry if you have to it will help. Good luck :(

Answer 6

I lost a dog. I had her put down. I held her until she went to sleep. It was the hardest thing I ever did. That was back in1994. It took a few yrs to get over it. Time is the only thing that can help. My dog today is 15 and I'm not ready to let her go.. I was thinking about having her ashes saved in an urn. We are never ready for something like that.

Answer 7

Aww, i doubt you will never get over that but you will feel better about it was for his own good... It was the best thing for him .. You will never forget him so really do not try too..
Getting another dog would be a good idea too if you wanted..
I know exactly how you feel... Just think of what would make your pet happy.. Im sure he would love to see you happy.. Think of what a great dog he was and the wonderful things he did and all the great memories do not think of him old or sick..
He will always be with you,, in your heart..
Im very sorry to hear and its going to be a bit of a rough time..

Best of luck!

Love from - Sarah!

Answer 8

Hi Drig, I'm so sorry to hear about your dog, I was very touched by what you said. You two must have been great friends I'm sure you both had many happy times together. Grieving for a loved one is perfectly natural-eventually the pain will ease but the joy of knowing him & the fond memories will remain always. I wish you all the best.

Answer 9

i am sorry to hear about your loss. some time ago i saw a black poodle (small about 10 months old) in an office. the floor was wet and i commented on the fact the he could get sick. the guy if your so worried take him. i did. i called my wife and suggested we could give him away. we did, 17 years later. i waited awhile, and a year later we got bogie a puppy-maltese. he is 4 now and is 9 lbs. i hope this helps

Answer 10

I is always hard to get over the death of your dog. Especially if you were really attached to him. I am sorry for your loss. But i think the best way to get over your dogs death is to think of all of the happy times you had together, and to always remember that you gave him a good home that he problem would have never had. If you are really really upset. I suggest you talk to one of your best buds so maybe they can help you a little with it.