love playing hard to get or not.Thanks for your input
2007-07-10 09:40:11 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
yes that way if your still chasing after awhile we will give in.. we will know that you are for real.. most men give up and go after another..
2007-07-10 09:43:32 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
I've been single for three years trying to earn my degree and I don't like to play hard to get. Sometimes it can be a good idea if I want to test how much someone cares about, but otherwise no, because sometimes it will back fire and the guy will be like "she's not worth it."
2007-07-10 16:44:05 · answer #2 · answered by Angel Face 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I dont play hard to get, I'm not easy either though.
But really, if I'm not feeling a guy (personality), I dont play games, I just try to avoid him, but if I am liking a guy, then I dont want to come off as easy or anything, so I wait for them to approach me, and if wants to be more than friends (not sleeping with me for night and be done), he could meet my parents, and we could do some fun activities together.
2007-07-10 16:46:37 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I suppose it depends on what you mean by 'hard to get'. Personally, I won't throw myself at a guy, but I don't pretend that I *don't* like him when I actually do, either. Typically, if I'm interested in a guy, I'm at the very least quite friendly towards him.
2007-07-10 16:44:58 · answer #4 · answered by Lex 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
well honestly it kind of depends on the person...some guys are sensitive and come to a girl when she needs him and doesnt have to beg...but other guys however are kind of obnoxious and are a little hard headed and need someone to chase...thats when i play hard to get! it kind of sounds like i am comparing guys to dogs but honestly thats just the way it came out!
2007-07-10 17:02:05 · answer #5 · answered by daddys_angel15 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it really depends on the guy and the day...if i really like the guy and want something besides sex to come out of the relationship then yes i might play a little hard to get, but sometimes hard to get is just too much work...
2007-07-10 16:44:49 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Can't stand it, because I'm so easy. I can't say no when someone wants to borrow a shirt, and to say no to something that feels good makes me want to cry. But, guys don't date the easy girls, and I hate being a one-night stand or a booty call. So what's a girl to do.
2007-07-10 17:39:24 · answer #7 · answered by jadeaaustin 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't think that women should play mind games. I think women just need to be real and straight up with guys. I personally believe they respond better that way.
2007-07-10 16:44:18 · answer #8 · answered by Kori spelled backwards is Irok 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
sometimes its fun to play hard to get for a while but not for long as guys do eventually get bored with waiting for the prize. xxx
2007-07-10 16:43:38 · answer #9 · answered by passionladypink 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
not me. i have no problem makin the first move. i think its dumb when girls play those little games and it just makes them look immature. if i see a guy i want, i just go for him. no childish games... its a waste of time. if i was a guy, id see that as a sign of insecurity in a woman.
2007-07-10 16:44:41 · answer #10 · answered by **CHRIST*a rock that is higher** 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I'm straight forward, too. Mind games are only for the immature.
2007-07-10 21:43:51 · answer #11 · answered by greenonion08 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋