Let's say a girl is 25 and a guy is 45 and they really like each other. Can it be a good relationship, or is it really too big a gap?
2007-07-10 08:50:29 · 34 answers · asked by Biker Guy 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Oh that's disgusting. That's way too much. It's like a daughter is dating her dad. Man, it should be only 5-10 years of an age idfference. Twenty years, is a little way too much. Sorry, buddy. That's sick.
2007-07-10 08:53:54 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 5⤋
That's about the gap between a friend of mine and her boyfriend and they get along great. Actually, I think it's 25 years difference.The thing that's awkward is if they were to get married (which they don't want to and it's not because of this) her step kids would be older than her.
I definitely think it could be a good relationship if all the positives are there. To me it's not something to reject someone over. My boyfriend is 11 years older. Not quite as big of a gap but love knows no boundaries.
2007-07-10 09:02:08 · answer #2 · answered by Ersabette 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It can be a good relationship, depending on the people. My great uncle who is over 55, married a woman younger than 34. They've been married for about 3 or 4 years now and they're perfectly happy.
If this girl and this guy really like each other, then they should go for it. Age shouldn't be a factor.
2007-07-10 08:53:21 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
It is completely possible. It just depends on the people, and how mature they are and compatable. I have been attracted to older guys, I am 25, and see nothing wrong with that at all. IT might be an issue for the girls parents, and that is something that will be a common theme for people in general. They will have to defend there love quite a bit, but if it is worth it, it is worth it.
2007-07-10 08:55:30 · answer #4 · answered by missadvice411 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It all depends on the couple. If both have no problems with the age difference, all's good. If one or both have a problem with the age gap, the relationship won't work.
2007-07-10 08:59:26 · answer #5 · answered by Erin 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I know a couple that got married and they have a little boy.
She is 26 and hes like 40 45 50 or so
2007-07-10 08:53:01 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
I think it's fine.
They're would probably a few generation-gap issues, but if there is love, that would be insignificant.
Look at Catherine Zeta- Jones and Michael Douglas- they have a family and seem perfectly happy.
2007-07-12 13:57:24 · answer #7 · answered by odette82 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It depends on the people in the relationship; there is a possibility that the relationship could be excelent, but the girl better watch her *** and take it really slow, just in case.
2007-07-10 08:53:25 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It really depends on the couple... personally I'm not against it at all.
Just for the record though, My dad is old enough to be a grandfather of a 40 year old man, so no, it's not like dating my father.
2007-07-10 08:54:42 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
Whooooooooooooooooooa nelly....TOO MUCH of an age gap. Honey he's old enough to be your daddy. You really can't believe you have anything substantial in common with this guy.... He's basically looking for a piece of arm candy......You're better off with someone closer to your age....I'd say no more than 5-6 yrs older than you....
2007-07-10 09:01:22 · answer #10 · answered by Candi is Dandy 4 · 0⤊ 2⤋
My sister is 28 my bro in law is 52!! They have a 3 yr. old son. And they are happy:) But my bro in law is well...scared cuz of there age difference. And my sis has to act a lot older than she is...for him. Ya know? But they love eachother..and if u do, then that to me is all that matters in a relationship..not age!
2007-07-10 08:54:48 · answer #11 · answered by ? 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋