Is it weird to be almost 21 and never been in a serious relationship?
2007-07-10 08:22:35 · 34 answers · asked by Sour Girl 5 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I think the right question would be, "Is it bad for me, or good for me to be 21 and never been in a serious relationship?"
Consider this: (1) the amount of drama you've avoided, (2) the amount of past relationship junk you WON'T have to worry about your future bf/husband to be jealous of or hurt by!
Honestly, I think I dated way too much. I felt and caused a lot of hurt. Smile a bit knowing you're one of the few who has a clean slate;)
2007-07-10 08:29:21 · answer #1 · answered by HollywoodHousewife♥ 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
No not at all. Most of us aren't mature enough to have a serious relationship at 21! You will have a serious relationship when you are ready for one.
2007-07-10 08:27:30 · answer #2 · answered by JoJo 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well no and yes. I mean when you get older that's when you want to start settle down and that's when all the immature relationships that caused problems in the past like knowing when to act cool and when the time to be jealous comes into play. And it may be hard lata on cause if you don't know what your boundaries are who else is going to know.
Than its good cause it shows that your not a person who gets played with. And that your not a slut cause your not around with every guy out there.
2007-07-10 08:28:28 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
not weird
you just havent met the right person and 21 is still pretty young if you are 30 and you havent had a serious relationship then you can get a little worried
2007-07-10 08:25:20 · answer #4 · answered by riskybusiness 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Nope. Some people just don't find someone to be serious with. I've only had one girlfriend and we dated for 2.5 years, and i'm only 19. So it can be the opposite, is it weird i've only had one girlfriend and it was so serious? I dunno, anyways, don't worry about it. keep an eye out and look at what's in front of you. sometimes those guys your good friends with, could be a better option as more!
2007-07-10 08:26:57 · answer #5 · answered by kyryliw 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Absolutely not, you are in the pefect position to play the field. You're young and unattached and you'll have plenty of time for being serious later. For now, sit back and enjoy being 21, you'll miss it when you're 30.
2007-07-10 08:32:12 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Nothing wierd about it.
Take your time and never settle for anything less than what you want.
Enjoy your life to the fullest while you're young.There'll be lots of time later to settle down.
If you want it,the right person will come along one day when you least expect it.If not,there's nothing wrong with being single all your life if that's what you choose.
Anyway,enjoy and I wish you all the best.
2007-07-10 08:34:07 · answer #7 · answered by sonnyboy 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
deffinatly not! I know 21 year olds that are still virgins etc...
a guy will like that in you, you will find a nice decent guy that will be honered to be your first true love! I personally like that in guys. But you dont HAVE to have a long term relationship et any age. Its all normal
2007-07-10 08:27:13 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
no not really, You should be ready for a commitment before you get serious. I suggest people date till their at least 21 before considering getting serious unless you've been with them since highschool
2007-07-10 08:26:28 · answer #9 · answered by Steven M 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
no not weird at all,my best friend is 23 and never ever been in a relationship or had any kind b/f at all and its her choice so shes fine with it and no one ever thought it to be weird at all. to each its own! everyone is different do what makes you happy.
2007-07-10 08:27:46 · answer #10 · answered by jelisa3120 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋