My best friend is getting married in a few weeks. I'm one of the bride's maids. We've planned a sexy bachelorette party for her.
She is a little shy (a lot) and a V... She have been asking lately about erotic toys. I would like to give her a very special gift. I was thinking about a erotic kit. Try to put together some toys and things like that (maybe mild erotic things) so they can have some extra-fun on their honeymoon. I didn't think about this before but now that she ask for some ideas but to shy to go "shopping"....
What could i include into this kit to spice things a little bit!
2007-07-10 08:12:12 · 13 answers · asked by chococat 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Weddings
Is not hard or unconfortable to type just make me feel a little bit nostalgic. I don't regret about how I did the things but I have been lately thinking about my first time. I've had just one partner and he's great and special.
2007-07-10 08:27:07 · update #1
go to any erotic store and they usually have like a 'honeymoon' kit. Sometimes Spencer's Gifts will have them too.
Lotions, furry Hand cuffs, costumes. I wouldn;t over board seeing how she is a virgin, you don't want to scare her, but simple things that she can have fun with and experiment with.
2007-07-10 08:16:43 · answer #1 · answered by jamitha99 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can get massage oils, an erotic massage book, liquid chocolate (the kind they sell at sex stores), the edible underwear is a good one, and there are some tiny vibrators out there that I've heard are really cool - some are just a round little ball that vibrates, others are more egg-shaped. They don't really look like a vibrator at all, but work can work really well. You have the option of using them for a regular massage by just rolling it around your partner's back. This would be a lot more discreet and fun for a shy person, vs a big penis-shaped vibrator that can be hard to hide.
Another thing is a game. My fiancee and I got an awesome one-it's called Strip Chocolate. It's like a board game, where you throw the die, move your pieces and then select a card. Depending on where your piece fell and what your card says, you get to do all sorts of things to your partner, starting with stripping down, and most of them involving chocolate (included in the game). We love this game-it is sweetly erotic (no pun intended) without being vulgar. If she is shy and a virgin, she might really like this one. It's great foreplay, and it will help with those first-time jitters!
Just make sure you give her your gift in private, so that she isn't embarrassed in front of her other friends.
2007-07-10 15:34:18 · answer #2 · answered by Saiph 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Haha, that's what we did for a friend of mine, who was also a v. We girls just went to a sex shop and got a whole bunch of things...we found this really cute basket that was in the shape of a bustier and just filled it with all kinds of things, erotic oils, candles, a vibrator, a book with all kinds of ideas and positions to try, so massage oils, lots of chocolates in certain shapes...just bring the bridesmaids and have fun!! I'm sure she'll be embarrassed, but she'll appreciate it.
2007-07-10 15:20:35 · answer #3 · answered by meg 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If she is a "v", why would you want to spice things up? Don't you think that she will be ready enough on her honeymoon? Perhaps a little liquid courage would be good just to relax her a little, but I think that introducing extra curricular activities might not be the best idea.
2007-07-10 15:21:55 · answer #4 · answered by Natnic27 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is her party, not yours. If she is shy why are you going out of your way to embarass her and make her uncomfortable?
If you do get her some toys, I would not give it to her in front of everyone. Besides, most people do NOT bring toys on their honeymoon. It's a tacky "gag gift" but a complete waste of money.
Maybe get her some oils or lotions. Edible undies are harmless enough. Toys are not going to give them "extra fun" on their honeymoon.
2007-07-10 23:29:32 · answer #5 · answered by Sandy 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be careful when you give her the gift beacuse if she is a shy person then the gift might embarrase her or she might not like it at all. What you can do is go to the sex shops and get her chocolate in forms of ... and ... instead of the whole package thingie.
2007-07-10 15:33:13 · answer #6 · answered by Flaca 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wow...is virgin too hard to type? Or is it just a word you're not comfortable with? :-)
I'd probably start with a Kama Sutra book. The Kama Sutra is an ancient "study" of sex, which looks at the spirituality of sex, along with the beauty of love and marriage. It's a great way to get started trying new positions, etc., without feeling like you're looking at porn.
2007-07-10 15:20:45 · answer #7 · answered by abfabmom1 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I wouldnt really get her anything. sorry but if she wants to try toys and such then she can put on her big girl pants and go to the store herself. your sexuality is nothing to be shy about. she needs to grow up before she starts thinking about toys. she should wait until she gets comfortable in the bedroom first.
2007-07-10 15:30:49 · answer #8 · answered by Jenn ♥Cadence Jade's mum♥ 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
get her some edible undies, some edible body paints, maybe a little tiny whip to spice it up. some flavored massage oils.
2007-07-10 15:15:53 · answer #9 · answered by spadezgurl22 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go to your local pleasure chest. They have things there for all types of experiences. Have fun!
2007-07-10 15:20:21 · answer #10 · answered by Brown Eyed Girl 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋