One deep and meaningful relationship with someone special or lots of shallow meaningless relationships?
I know it depends what you are ready for - but which one is better?
Honesty please!!!!!!!!
2007-07-10 08:01:55 · 28 answers · asked by chandra 6 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Quality all the way. What's the point of shaming yourself and losing your dignity because you feel that you need a new girl or guy every week? *u*
2007-07-10 09:08:06 · answer #1 · answered by tres_leches_33 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
In the future it won't matter most how many meaningless relationships you have had but the one relationship that you will always remember is the one that meant the most to you and that is the one with the best quality.
Although meaningless relationships may provide fun, you will never have a chance to "settle-down" fi you haev never been involved in a real deep adult relationship.
I hope this helped!
2007-07-10 15:05:44 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Quality trumps quantity! Honestly!
You only really need one person in your life, but he has to be very special! It's better for you in a million ways to stick with one special sweetie than to 'play the field'. You both grow together emotionally, you continue to learn new ways to delight each other, to show your love for each other. You feel secure with each other, and you feel better about everything in your life. Not to mention you're safer from STDs.
People who sleep around a lot often end up wanting to settle down with one special person but then they find they have trouble forming permanent relationships. I am a little older, and I've had a chance to see this happen to many of my friends who were 'footloose and fancy free'.
If you find that special guy, if you -know- he's the one, GRAB him! Take him out of circulation before some other girl does. Consider yourself lucky!
(Sorry, I'm spoken for. 8^) ).
2007-07-10 15:08:39 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well the real one should have both the quality meaning that it is real and stong and based on the best quality called love. The quantity is endless anounts of it. Should just feel comfortable expessing it and if one prefers another way of expressing than accept and agree and move on to be more free by both parties coming together because they know can have as much as they want since it surounds them and makes them bond.polar covalent chemistry.not bi
2007-07-10 15:10:32 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I love deep, meaningful relationships. The short ones were fun, but more memories with the longer ones.
2007-07-10 15:04:56 · answer #5 · answered by valgalallen 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
One deep meaningful relationship is over-rated. You know it's never gonna last so why waste time with just one when you can have many at the same time.
2007-07-10 15:05:35 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
quality is better than quantity. I would think that a lot of meaningless relationships would just leave you feeling empty or even used
2007-07-10 15:05:35 · answer #7 · answered by greedywendy 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Quality is always better, unless you enjoy just fooling around and having a physical relationship with a lot of people.
2007-07-10 15:04:04 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Quality.
2007-07-10 15:04:00 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
In the long run, I want to have a full, more meaningful life with one woman who loves me. In my later years, if I'm a player, who will care about me if I get sick, need someone to talk to or if I die.....who will care? Being lonely is possibly the worst way to be.
2007-07-13 02:26:59 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋