What's the easiest way for you to break up with your girlfriend? Without hurting her so much the she will think about committing suicide? I kinda don't like her anymore but, she's still addicted to me...
2007-07-10 07:59:37 · 15 answers · asked by RicardoL 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Its never nice being rejected and it is going to hurt her im afraid. Best way is to be honest but gentle. Tell her you still like her as a friend, but the feelings you had are not the same anymore. You are sorry and dont want to hurt her, but you would rather be honest with her than string her along.. Might be an idea to make sure there are family and friends around her to help her through her pain so she doesnt do anything silly. Best of luck hun...
2007-07-10 08:03:19 · answer #1 · answered by Twinkle 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Best way go face to face privately. Dont give excuses just tell your reason why you dont think it will work out. If the girl loves you alot, no matter what you say her feeling will be hurt. There is no way that you cannot hurt her feelings. Dont go mean and be rude and insultive.
5 things that you should not do
1. Send a friend or someone to break the bad news.
2. Never over the phone.
3. Never through a text message.
4. No sending letters or not
5. Never through anyway possible over the internet.
2007-07-10 15:06:00 · answer #2 · answered by Chi Town Playa 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There is no easy way. Just tell her. The more direct, honest, and straight-forward you are the better it will be. If she is suicidal, however, you can't do anything about that. She needs to learn to live without you. She can't do that if you are stringing her along in fear of her doing something to herself. Talk to some of her friends and maybe her folks and make sure they are looking out for her, and then just do it. You'll be doing her AND you a favor.
2007-07-10 15:02:50 · answer #3 · answered by Mr. Taco 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Real nice you god damn prick. Why didnt you just break it off when you first started feeling like you didnt like her anymore? But no, you had to drag her along and lead her on, farteher and farther, and the more her feelings became of you. Theres no easy way around this, you dug yourself 6 feet underground, and now you have to get yourself out. Be honest and up front with her about it, and do it in person. Just tell her how you feel, what changed, etc. You sound like a jerk, so dont be one when you tell her and say 'oh i wanna expereience other girls, you arent good enough, i could do better blah blah blah' NO! You put youself in this mess and only you can get yourself outl.
2007-07-10 15:05:09 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
uuuuuuuuuuuuuuhhhhhhh
if she is addicted to u it will hurt her
but if u don't want her tell
her she probably woun't wan to live in a lie
or show her one of ur cutest friend
maybe she will find in attracive
and she will fall for him
but the easiest
just tell
her that u wan to breakup
because u need time alone
tothtink about stuff
tel her ur not ready for relationship
not for a commitment u want to meet other people to make make right desicion
tell her that
2007-07-10 15:11:43 · answer #5 · answered by lsweetdandi 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You seem like a nice guy so ill help you out
let her know why you want to have some distance and let her down gentley. Girls like it when you tell them the truth
2007-07-10 15:03:49 · answer #6 · answered by MOLLY♥ 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
one of my friends had that exact same problem. He told her he had a problem because they weren't the same religion. It wasn't true, but it did the job. That way she always just wondered if it was really her, but she never knew for sure, and he didn't have to say "I don't like you" and risk her going and killing herself.
2007-07-10 15:24:31 · answer #7 · answered by Mel 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if u can afford it ..disappear to another town,state ..country.Text her to say you have moved in with an old sweet heart and ask her to move on..u not gonna do this sticking around with her in ur street/flat!change ur number too&it is worth telling the police in ur new area..incase she kills herself..u do not want to be charged of manslaughter or murder.
2007-07-10 15:09:07 · answer #8 · answered by G.xi 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
When I don't want to date someone anymore, I usually do things that I know bother them so that they start to not like me. My ex-boyfriend HATED cigs, so when we first got together I quit...towards the end I wasn't into him anymore so I started full on smoking again...he broke up with me...then I re-quit haha...Do obnoxious things to her and she will stop being "addicted" to you.
2007-07-10 15:04:40 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
dude she sounds crazy
i would just tell her strait out in a public place just in case she decides to do something crazy at that point.
2007-07-10 15:03:28 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋